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Neighbour maybe doesn't realise house is concrete WWYD?

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lineylines · 30/11/2024 22:10

My neighbour has put their house on the market. It's a normal ad.

However, their house is concrete construction. Definitely - not only is ours, and the houses look the same, but theirs in a semi and the one next door (that it's atttached to - effectively the other side of the same house) sold last year, and the ad clearly said "cash buyers only as concrete construction".

The price they're asking is normal for a standard construction house round here, but they're not going to get nearly that for a conrete house. The one next door sold for £75K less than they're asking.

I'm trying to work out whether I should say something to them.

If they already know it's concrete I guess it's none of my business really. It's very unlikely a buyer won't find out as the houses on this road are flagged as "possibly concrete construction" and it will be hard to get a mortage. Unless someone buys cash, I guess?

But if they don't know, then it's going to be a nasty shock - they may find out once they've offered on a new place and then their buyer's mortgage falls through when the lender finds out it's concrete.

Lots of people here don't realise about the concrete I think as this is an ex council estate and some of the houses were bought ages ago and passed down families.

I don't know them well, they keep themselves to themselves.

Should I say something to be neighbourly? Or stay out of it? WWYD?

OP posts:
Blondeshavemorefun · 01/12/2024 00:56

I'm surprised by this

I live in an ex Council house that is concrete

1930's semi detached with poured concrete and pebbledash

Walls are a bugger to drill 😂😂 and can ruin /blunt drill bits as workman found out when I had a window taken out to make patio doors

I got a mortgage no issue

Next door did 20yrs later

They sell quickly along my road as near a fab school so lots sell and sure all got mortgages and not cash buyers

WhimsicalGubbins76 · 01/12/2024 01:24

I’m a bit confused at why you’re asking.
Unless they’re your best friends then it’s literally none of your business. Stay out of it

CliantheLang · 01/12/2024 01:40

Letmegohome · 01/12/2024 00:36

MYOB
It's got zero to do with you.
Why are you invested in it?

It's got nothing to do with me as an American but I'm still interested.
I'm interested that a country can be full of people who seem to be absolutely terrified of being called rude and yet those same people will have no problem brazenly cheating unsuspecting home buyers.
It's fascinating, really.

Thevelvelletes · 01/12/2024 01:49

Racc concrete is a big problem, there's a housing estate in Aberdeen where 500 house's have to come down because of it.

Letmegohome · 01/12/2024 01:49

@CliantheLang no idea why you're quoting me.
A neighbour selling their property has zero to do with @lineylines
At no point does op need to drop it on to conversation or make a fake email account.
It's not the ops house so it's nothing to do with her.
If your so fascinated with the selling of property in the UK Google it
My neighbour has just sold their house for over twice what they paid for it four years ago , do you know what it's got to do with me? NOTHING

nationalsausagefund · 01/12/2024 03:20

Letmegohome · 01/12/2024 01:49

@CliantheLang no idea why you're quoting me.
A neighbour selling their property has zero to do with @lineylines
At no point does op need to drop it on to conversation or make a fake email account.
It's not the ops house so it's nothing to do with her.
If your so fascinated with the selling of property in the UK Google it
My neighbour has just sold their house for over twice what they paid for it four years ago , do you know what it's got to do with me? NOTHING

Edited

Maybe a message board that is fundamentally about other people’s lives that have nothing to do with us is not the place for you?

Spirallingdownwards · 01/12/2024 03:28

Yes but if they don't know they can't disclose and don't have to disclose it. It will be on a buyer to find out and they may not - after all you didn't.

timetodecide2345 · 01/12/2024 03:32

I find it puzzling that you know all this and are this involved. You win the prize for the ultimate nosey neighbour.

Slawit · 01/12/2024 04:29

Stay out of it.

lineylines · 01/12/2024 05:39

Bournetilly · 01/12/2024 00:47

Email the estate agents from a fake email account asking them if the house is a concrete build (they will look into it if they haven’t already).

I agree it would be best for them to know but if you don’t know them well I wouldn’t tell them yourself, it might look like you are interfering.

What an odd way to think!

You'd rather not LOOK like you're interfering, but you're quite happy to actually interfere by going to the estate agents secretly? What if they then found out you'd done this? That'd be awful for everyone!

I'd rather be straight up with my neighbours, or say nothing. I'm not going to go sneaking around behind their backs meddling with their house sale.

My starting and ending point are - "what would I want people to do if it was me in their shoes?"

OP posts:
lineylines · 01/12/2024 05:51

timetodecide2345 · 01/12/2024 03:32

I find it puzzling that you know all this and are this involved. You win the prize for the ultimate nosey neighbour.

Goodness, some posters really do love to find ways to stick the knife in! 😂

It's hardly being a nosey neighbour to know their house is concrete as MINE IS IDENTICAL!

I keep an eye on house prices in my town as I'm planning to sell as soon as I'm in a position to be able to do so. That's not being a nosy neighbour as I have no idea who lives in most of them - it's research for my own benefit. Also I enjoy it, it makes it feel more real that we're going to move at some point.

I'm nervous about not being able to afford anything decent (because of the low prices for concrete) and it helps with planning to know what I'm up against. And so, I'm curious whenever a concrete house comes up for sale if it'll sell ok, as I'm worried mine won't. (Hardly any have been put up for sale since I realised mine was concrete).

That's not being a nosy neighbour, as it's got nothing to do with who lives in them - that's sensible planning, for the benefit of my family.

OP posts:
verycloakanddaggers · 01/12/2024 06:00

lineylines · 30/11/2024 22:59

I find this an odd question! I've already said, if they don't know, it'll be a nasty shock if they find out late on in their sale.

I have a concrete house myself and I would appreciate someone telling me upfront rather than me thinking I had a sale going through and possibly having offered on a new property myself only to have the whole thing go tits up.

It's about being neighbourly. Are you familiar with the concept?

You're projecting, it's not neighbourly to do that.

They are living their life their way. The price they ask is between them and their estate agent.

You're projecting your feelings onto them. Its none of your business.

Roystonv · 01/12/2024 06:00

Wow so many saying it is none of your business and why do you care; because we are human beings who need to work together to make the world a better place. Would you not want others to use their knowledge to try and help you? Should they just look on and watch it all go pear shaped; I hate what 'be kind' means now but in this case thinking of others is the right thing to do. With attitudes that are so scathing and people who are blind to caring no wonder we are in such a mess. Yes op you should speak up via the estate agent; your points are valid and could be of help to all 3 parties.

verycloakanddaggers · 01/12/2024 06:04

Spirallingdownwards · 01/12/2024 03:28

Yes but if they don't know they can't disclose and don't have to disclose it. It will be on a buyer to find out and they may not - after all you didn't.

If they genuinely don't know, it would be unhelpful for the OP to 'helpfully' tell them.

ForGreyKoala · 01/12/2024 06:32

SueblueNZ · 30/11/2024 22:23

I live on the other side of the world so don't understand the issue with concrete homes. Is it because they would be susceptible to crumbling due to age? What about old original rural homes built of concrete - how do they work for insurance and mortgage purposes?

I was thinking the same thing - also on the other side of the world. We had an old concrete house, it certainly showed no sign of crumbling (well, until an earthquake hit it!).

Novaavon · 01/12/2024 06:52

It's absolutely none of your business.

NewGreenDuck · 01/12/2024 07:06

Where I was born there is an estate like this. Some of the houses gave been given a brick 'skim' so they are now mortagable. IYSWIM. Has this happened to this house?

leafybrew · 01/12/2024 07:07

Mind your own business.

It's as simple as that.

leafybrew · 01/12/2024 07:09

Roystonv · 01/12/2024 06:00

Wow so many saying it is none of your business and why do you care; because we are human beings who need to work together to make the world a better place. Would you not want others to use their knowledge to try and help you? Should they just look on and watch it all go pear shaped; I hate what 'be kind' means now but in this case thinking of others is the right thing to do. With attitudes that are so scathing and people who are blind to caring no wonder we are in such a mess. Yes op you should speak up via the estate agent; your points are valid and could be of help to all 3 parties.

Really???

Is the OP an architect or housing expert?

It may stir up trouble that is totally unnecessary - not 'make the world a better place'

leafybrew · 01/12/2024 07:13

lineylines · 01/12/2024 05:39

What an odd way to think!

You'd rather not LOOK like you're interfering, but you're quite happy to actually interfere by going to the estate agents secretly? What if they then found out you'd done this? That'd be awful for everyone!

I'd rather be straight up with my neighbours, or say nothing. I'm not going to go sneaking around behind their backs meddling with their house sale.

My starting and ending point are - "what would I want people to do if it was me in their shoes?"

@lineylines

Well you did ask the question... and you have lots of answers.

Just do whatever the heck you want. You wanted opinions, but it seems not any opinion, just the ones that agree with your viewpoint.

TheWayTheLightFalls · 01/12/2024 07:20

I’m sitting in the kitchen of my concrete from head to toe house, bought last year with a mortgage the size of the GDP of a small nation. It’s not an automatic barrier to banks lending. Even the skirting boards are concrete - shortages of wood in the 1940s.

RoamingGnome · 01/12/2024 07:22

Surely it would be fraudulent for the seller and estate agent to knowing sell a house of non-standard construction without telling the buyer? I would be concerned for the potential buyer - imagine if you'd hugely overpaid for somewhere with unsafe cladding then had a neighbour later say 'well yes I thought it was weird you paid that much and the advert didn't mention the cladding but it wasn't my place to say anything' . I'd be incredibly upset, out of pocket and looking into legal action against the seller!

Startinganew32 · 01/12/2024 07:27

The estate agents will know - they aren’t total idiots. I suspect the OP is concerned that her neighbours will get more for their property than she thinks they should (probably because she paid over the odds for hers with her dodgy surveyor who couldn’t spot the construction) and would like them to clearly put in the listing that it’s concrete and therefore awful construction and not worth the asking price.
I’m unsure why OP is so certain it hasn’t been priced knowing that it’s non standard. Maybe they want to go in high.
When I’ve bought I’ve seen houses where I’ve been told of subsidence, previous flooding and lack of building regs. None of it was in the original listing obviously. But I was told.

DanielaDressen · 01/12/2024 07:29

lineylines · 30/11/2024 23:37

I did get a survey - and a full survey, not a homeowners one.

The surveyor disappeared - I think he was havnig some kind of personal crisis. I was heavily pregnant and it was really stressful. There's a lot more boring detail to it, but no, I didn't buy without a survey.

Blimey, I’d be going back and suing that surveyor!

guess you could go and chat to the neighbour and tell them you’re thinking about selling and ask if the estate agent has said anything about potential issues with selling due to the concrete. Personally I’d keep out of it.

Sailawaygirl · 01/12/2024 07:32

Op you've got me worrying about my houses. I have a 1930s ex council house. I know the lintles are concrete because it's bloodt hard to put up blinds 😂 but I'm realising that brick dust comes our when I out up shelfs. Anyway in my panic googling I've just found this website https://nonstandardhouse.com/

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