We offered a smidgeon over 5% under on Monday and were immediately rejected. Asked what we would like to increase our offer to and I said ‘we won’t, that’s our only offer.’
I partly didn’t want to pay any more for that house due to the compromises it involved but partly also want that agent, who is HUGE in the area to know that future vendors should be advised that we only come in once with an offer and were absolutely serious about that - and we are in a fantastic position for sellers to consider. So maybe it’s arrogant on my part? If they want the easiest chain imaginable, we are it. So no, I am not lowering, nor messing around.
I guess I am privileged in that I am completely and utterly ambivalent about absolutely any house that’s not twice our budget! And there are hundreds on the market where we are looking. So I just don’t care enough to play games.
Anyway OP, I wonder if this may explain your experiences:
You are buying first step
Your offers are going to second step
Their offers are going to third step family home owners
We are going straight in at third step and my experience of all the houses (at least ones we like, anyway) is that they are very reluctant to reduce price. Some theories:
A lot of them want to buy new build bungalows or houses which are heckin expensive
Most of them just want to move closer to their kids so are in no rush
Almost all of them will be having to help their kids out with extortionate house price deposits or cost of living help, and, being sensible, are probably trying to hold on to every penny
Many pensioners are being taxed for the first time due the tax threshold freeze and it has been all over the news
Cost of living, energy, suddenly their retirement funds are looking far less rosy
That lack of ability to reduce has to work its way down the chain, surely?
I think boomers might be a bit scared at just how easy it is for all their excess funds to disappear quite so quickly now, and are being prudent. In the old days it was pretty normal to ‘help’ your kids out with housing with a small deposit or furnishing the place, but these days it seems to be more like a necessity than a ‘would be nice.’ That’s got to be scary if you had an idea what your pension income was going to be three years ago, and now all you know is everything is uncertain?
That’s my two penny’s worth, anyhow.