SO helpful, thank you again. Scary then that if you have a shite builder and DON'T do your own research, it could all go terribly wrong.I'll have to threaten to throw the Building Inspector into the foundations unless they check it all thoroughly for me! I do have a contact who is a very in demand builder. He is a friend of a friend and while we couldn't afford to use him for the builder, I'd hope he'd come round and give me his thoughts on the foundations etc in exchange for a nice bottle of something.
That will be the 'hardest' part for us, once it starts going up, we'd be OK........
I will order that book and read obsessively about the processes. With the timber frame company after the frame was up, what was your next step? Sorry if it sounds stupid, but do you not have bricks or blocks? If you do, what's the advantage of brick/block AND frame? What was the price difference between that verses a brickie? Apologies for all the questions - never heard of this option before?
Did you move out? How have you found it all? Hopefully not too stressful with a newborn too - well done you!
Did you not bother with a structural engineer then if Solo did all the calculations? Will look them up and send them our plans and see what they say.
DeVol is gorgeous of course, but as you say I can't justify that spend. I do however, intend to buy these beautiful Devol stools - www.devolkitchens.co.uk/interiors/home-accessories/bum-stool-counter-height
I've also been buying some tiles and lights etc, despite my DH going mad but I can't help it. I know what style the bathrooms will be so why not?
Ours isn't a forever home, we will move in 3 years for schools so I have to think of it in a different way. I love the process though and can get so carried away, but do love a bargain, so am pretty clued up and a decent negotiator.
Whatever DH refuses to do or gets sicks of I have a decent handyman who charges a really reasonable day rate. He can do most things, so could tile one bathroom if DH threw the towel after doing the other one etc. If not, I'll do it all!!!
Have you had a look at the free standing larders? You can get them made on Ebay for really reasonable prices and they would be something special in the kitchen. Sounds like we have similar taste! This is what I mean: www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Bespoke-Modern-Solid-Pine-Kitchen-Larder-F-B-Shaded-White-Delivery-from-50/263400567347?hash=item3d53e5b233:g:k0UAAOSw3h1ZWROb