cantput
I really sympathise with you.
our kids are at a small school, where there's no need to set like this, but I do think the labelling is unnecessary, and certainly dents esteem. And for other kids to say stupid etc is unforgivable.
This is partly why I asked any teachers if it was true that moving the kids around was a palava. because in educational circles, it's well known that kids can plateau for moths, sometimes years, and then suddenly shoot ahead amazingly for no apparent reason.
You only have to look at one yr olds who go from one or two unintelligible words to constructing sentences almost over night sometimes.
And to move kids between groups, when they've all had their very specific gradiet levels and books is a hassle, because you have to get the new one onto that gradient/learning curve.
I think we all agree the educational sytem has many flaws, and this is one big one.
I also think it marks out the middle class kids, because they've often had much more input at home, and the teacher assumes that means they're more clever, and vice versa with kids who haven't had the input.
Don't know what you'd do about it tho, because for teachers, there's always going to be a wide variety in any class; we wouldn't want to go back to all seats facing the teacher at the front would we? Or would we?