It's potentially concerning if parents are expected to "make up" for lost academics with extra academic work at home. Because it's the last thing anyone wants to be do doing late at night after a hard day at work when kids and parents are tired. And because it makes it hard for children to rise beyond parental background and education levels
I think that's why I got frustrated - with children who were already exhausted by school and having to get them to do work at home so they had the basics and didn't fall further behind. Plus once it's more than one child - it gets even harder and takes up so much time.
It is also worrying about the children you don't get the support as well.
But I don’t understand homework at that age. Studies have shown it does not enhance learning in any way.
I think the homework research isn't as clear cut as it first appears.
I think some is useful - reading maths practise - other like spelling lists and busy parental work like craft projects can be time consuming and pointless by some of the reseach lumps it all together.
I've also seen people defend craft projects as "fun" - they weren't to us and we were always aware the suposed purpose of the activity could easily be lost under the glue.
I did eye roll when school nursury gave us homework - "fun" activties to do with our child we both hated them - pretty sure teachers weren't keen on time spent providing the homework either.
Even learning though play which does sound great - I'm not sure was. I had children with hearing issues - oversensitve hearing, glue ear producing intermittent hearing lost, easily distracted and poor memory - and I think the noisy busy class delays setting up fun actives to learn the introduced concepts didn't help them.
Certainly they seemed happier higher up school with more structure and formal learning.
And it's not about 'fun school' - but your mind seems made up. You've got some real deep misconceptions that I don't think I'm going to be able to shift.
I do think that's a little unfair - IME when you child isn't struggling with basics and you're not so worried about their education it's easier to see the benefits to such activities.