scortja:
My DD1 (now Y7) went into something called 'rocket readers' - she wasn't outright told it was a reading recovery programme - but basically it was intensive work with a TA (former teacher).
This came in Y4 - she was literally struggling to read books her Y2 sister was whizzing through.
So first off - be glad they caught a possible problem early.
Second - nearly 6 is still very young, so it isn't any particularly failure on your DS' or your part. Indeed in some places formal education doesn't start until the year you turn 7.
Third - reading recovery schemes often are outside the class in a quiet place and frequently in small groups or one to one. I don't know if you've been in for reading mornings - but classrooms can be really noisy - and that can be a difficult place to learn in. So going somewhere quiet and focusing on reading may just get him over the hurdle he's having at the moment.
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What can you do:
Well my box of tricks includes:
Make reading a nightly routine (we opt for after bath/ before bed)
Alternate reading - don't make your DC do all the work. We started off with DD1 reading a few of the easier words or words she knew (The, and, with, without, The End, etc...) and I'd read the rest.
We then moved on to sounding out easier words. The [giant] cat sat by the [brook]. I would read words in [ ] - but she would read the rest.
We then moved to sounding out one full sentence. If she got it right I'd read the rest of the paragraph.
WE then moved to reading whole paragraphs, Is she got that right I'd read the next page.
We then went for every other paragraph. and then every other page (pictures count!).
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alphablocks: silly CBEEBIES cartoon with very catchy tunes about how to blend sounds. DD1 stumbled across it in late Y3 when DD2 was looking at some for homework. www.bbc.co.uk/cbeebies/alphablocks/
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find out what the phonics system is that your school is using - most have support materials. Our school used Jolly Phonics which has a brilliant set of 7 workbooks (more like colouring books) - that help with learning sounds, letter formation (traditional 3 hatched lines to help get heights right) and had lots of fun colouring to do. DD2 used these and really got off to a flying start.
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Don't be precious about only reading 'good quality books'/ school books. If the school books are not your DC's cup of tea/ read them a bit (as a warm up) but go on to read something more interesting.
Lots of the children's cartoon shows have magazines - and many of them have stories/ quizzes/ all sorts - that is great reading practice but won't feel like reading.
Cartoons/ graphic novels also involve a lot of reading - but again don't feel like it. I was snobby about these - but DD1 insisted on a Pokemon graphic novel and I relented. About 3 weeks later she came racing out of Y5 to say - 'Mum, you won't believe it, they've sat me with my arch nemesis on our starting tables!' I fear arch nemesis was an apt description of this child. My apologies Pokemon graphic novels!
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Being told your child is going to get extra help shouldn't be upsetting - you truly should be glad that your school has this in place and is offering it so swiftly.
You also should know that it isn't permanent. Getting help now may mean that in a year he's back with his mainstream class and maybe even progressing up the tables/ sets.
DD1 finished KS2 at NC L1 across the board. I was told that 'I needed to just understand that DD1 was a bit dim' by the HT - I can assure you that the problem was that I didn't appreciate how DD1 learns - better in a quiet environment/ best through doing it herself/ and responds well to visual things: clips/ cartoons/ drawings/ video games.
We worked really hard in Y3/ Y4 to turn things around - but we did. Genuinely - don't see it as a verdict - but as someone (a friend) offering you help and a warning to you that you should try and do a bit more at home/ take it more seriously.
Sincerely, I've never regretted making more time for reading with my girls. My only regret is it is clear DD1 (now Y7) has rather outgrown evening reading with Mum or Dad - which is a bit bittersweet. She will occasionally (we're finishing up the Lemony Snicket Series of Unfortuante Events series) - but these days is happy to just read on her own. But I know she's getting a bit big to be reading to her old Mum.