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DD has just brought her first homework home. I'm not entirely sure what I'm supposed to 'do' with it.

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ShowOfHands · 09/05/2011 17:51

She has the following...

An Oxford Reading Tree book that is as dull as dishwater.

A white board, plus marker and eraser.

Sheets that she's used to practise today (the letters s a and t).

An envelope with laminated words, letters and numbers as follows:

1
2
3
s
a
t
and
I
we
come
up

Preschool drop off/pick up is chaos and I was given this bag full of stuff with a cheery 'here's some things for her to practise at home' and shoved out the door.

So we've read the dull book. She can write s a and t (which she could do anyway tbh) so we've written it a few times and she's remarked that it spells sat and if you changed the s for an m it would be mat. We covered 'sh' briefly as the aforementioned book is all about 'sh'. Some child or other with a ship shop and some shells. I resisted quite admirably the urge to get her to sound out s-h-i-t. She knows her numbers up to 20 so can recognise and write them. But what else? Am I supposed to be teaching her the words in the envelope? And what? As flashcards? Or to sound them out? Or write them?

She's 3yrs old and I'm inclined to just let her go and dig up some worms tbh. But they've told me to write something in her homework book when she's finished. I'm tempted to write "dd spent Monday evening pretending to be Spiderman. She recognises this begins with s, as does the spaghetti she had for dinner. She liked the white board marker and used it to draw a spider motif on her chest to aid in aforementioned superhero aping'.

WTF am I doing here?

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ShowOfHands · 17/05/2011 09:11

The thing is, atm she knows all of her letters, most of the sounds and all numbers but tolerates sitting down and doing this because she still enjoys it. What worries me is that when she has to do it all again in reception she'll wander off in sheer boredom. I have faith in the school though. I went into school at 4 able to read and write and they catered for me as an individual. Hopefully the school can do that (the reception class has 2 teachers and 3 TAs).

Me on the other hand? Biff and his cohort Kipper can feck right off.

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ShowOfHands · 26/05/2011 20:03

Well this is just endlessly amusing.

She's conquered what I think from reading on here are cvc?? words. She can sound out most of them and makes a good stab at writing them too. She's also started writing rude words. Moo and too this evening were replaced with loo and poo as she snorted in amusement at her obvious ingenuity.

The thing is she keeps asking 'what next?' I know she likes learning and is keen to demonstrate what she knows through reading/writing but I am not remotely qualified to train this beast they've awoken in her. Are there any online resources? I've played eye spy and read every book we have to her but she wants to 'learn' as she keeps telling me. I do NOT want to teach her the reception curriculum a year early but I do want some activities that she'll enjoy and that are a bit more structured than general play. Any ideas?

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BoattoBolivia · 27/05/2011 07:35

What about 'writing' postcards to friends and relatives? My dd still loves sending and receiving things. Even if they don't make make much sense, gps will love getting a card with 'poo' written on it and dd will feel that she is doing 'real' writing.
Board games are good for maths, although some of the basic, early ones are tedious- there was a thread recently where people were recommending their favourites.
Making her own books?
When I went to museums and galleries with dd, she had a special notebook and pencil set we always took. Draw pictures of her favourite bits then 'write' underneath what they are.
My favourite maths resource as a teacher is cuisinaire rods. If you google them, you get pages of sites where you can buy some and ideas for using them, but at her age they would be great for playing with and making patterns, but they will look like 'school' things.
Your instincts sound really spot on to me- let her lead and do as much playing as you can. There is plenty of time for formal school stuff and you will soon be sick of homework once she gets to school!!

ShowOfHands · 27/05/2011 09:29

Oh I love the postcards idea. She collects postcards people have sent to her from all over the world. Sending them back is a great idea.

I remember making my own books many many years ago too and thinking myself very clever. I also like the idea of the museums and galleries thing. We're off on holiday in a few weeks and I've got a blank exercise book that we're turning into a holiday diary for her.

Am off to google cuisinaire rods (if I get some dodgy German porn popping up I'll be right back and thanking you telling you off). Grin

Brilliant ideas, thank you.

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BoattoBolivia · 27/05/2011 10:11

Actually the special museum notebook was a bloody good excuse to buy a funky book in paperchase!! I love that shop. Grin

Hullygully · 27/05/2011 10:14

Tell them she didn't have time to do her homework as she had to go to work

ShowOfHands · 27/05/2011 10:25

I do so love stationery. Grin

Hully Grin

I've already written several sarcastic comments in her homework book, they have started giving me The Look.

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littleducks · 27/05/2011 10:26

If you want to 'extend' her learning do something that doesnt focus on numbers/letters.

Get her to do a project, give her a book that she can draw/write whatever she wants in and find a topic that interests and excites her (and you). Don't put any input into what she does, let her have full control.

When dd was that age we learnt about the moon. Looked out the window for a month, watched it change shape. Cut out a card circle and cut it into pieces and made the waxing/waning moon.

Currently dd is 5, for her birthday we bought her caterpillars and watching them grow then turn into butterflies

ShowOfHands · 27/05/2011 10:48

littleducks, we do lots of stuff like that though I do like the moon one. In the last month of so for example...

I built her a planter and bought seeds, got a book from the library etc and she's growing herbs and salad outside.

We made a papier mache skeleton and then made body parts to put inside him, again along with requisite books from the library.

Friends who own a farm 'gave' her some hatching eggs and chicks to look after. We go down there and take pictures of the, talk about life cycles and so on.

etc etc

We do lots of projects, she picks a topic that's interesting her (grave rubbings lately I beg of you, my fault for starting the family tree).

She loves all of it but is nagging me to do more reading and writing and I have no idea how to do that in a fun no structured way when actually she wants to demonstrate her abilities in quite a structured way.

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Hullygully · 27/05/2011 14:31

Oh Showy...what fun lies ahead of you.

ShowOfHands · 27/05/2011 14:42

Oh don't Huls. I'm twitching already. She's currently breastfeeding a toy snake. Much more my level.

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Hullygully · 27/05/2011 15:05

The only way to cope is to see school as a kind of social area where they do a lot of the boring stuff and get on with the good stuff yourself.

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