First time mom here, with 32 weeks, wanted to share my experiences and expectations regarding Aniball...
I test-drove perineal massage some weeks ago, and was shocked to find that I can't reach properly, and second, it is quite unpleasant, and third, I could never, never work up to the recommended 10 cm opening by myself. But with Aniball I think there's a good chance I can.
I have been practicing for a week now, but taking it super easy, with the idea of building up slowly and at my own pace. I had the confidence to start this early, because perineal massage is already recommended where I live, at this stage, and I see Aniball as a direct substitute, albeit with additional benefits.
There are plenty of studies supporting the benefits of stretching the perineum, and Aniball seems like a great tool for that.
I am also learning pelvic muscle control and relaxed breathing, and I have enjoyed experimenting with different birthing positions. I plan for a "natural" vaginal birth, and I love the fact that I can feel the gravity working with the ball.
I started with just one pump of air, about a week ago, and yesterday I went up to three, where I will stay for a couple of days, to be able to move the ball out comfortably, before going further.
In the instructions it says max 5 pumps for the first time, and never pump so much as to feel actual pain.
Please don't expect to be able to expel a ball with 5 pumps comfortably the first time, it is the absolute maximum one should not go above the first time!
I feel happy with the exercises, but maybe because I am really working super slowly, wanting to get to know my body, and wanting to give it the time it actually needs to adjust to this. I also feel more confident about my body and about my ability to cope.
The idea is to work up smoothly, just like going to the gym after a long break. It is really nice to see the progress!
Personally I don't think I will try to go beyond the recommended 10cm (diameter) / 25cm (circumference). In the instructions it says one should not, and for my own safety, I will keep it at that.
I haven't dared to wait until the 37th week - after all the baby could drop any time between weeks 37-42 after all... Given that perineal massage is recommended at this stage, I can see no harm in working with Aniball at all, as long as one respects the recommended limits, and also does not work up to actual pain.
@Dnechaye, I like the concept of keeping the ball where you can feel the stretch, I am doing the same... If it feels too much, one can always retract, and let some air out, and try again the following day.
Thanks for sharing and congratulations for your baby boy and tearing-free birthing experience!