Hi,
My wife has just found out she's around 6 weeks pregnant. Brilliant news.
The thing is, next weekend it's her birthday and i'd planned a surprise trip to the Highlands, including an 11mile hike up a Munro (a hill more than 3000' high) as her birthday treat. We are seasoned hill walkers and the trip i've got in mind would usually be no bigger deal for her than eating a bowl of cornflakes. It's not dangerous at this time of year, just strenuous with some steep sections.
I know she'd absolutely love the trip. However, the last thing i want to do is needlessly increase the risk of miscarriage. I also know that she doesn't want to spend the coming months living in a protective cage and is determined to continue with her work etc (she does (often demanding) physical work on a farm).
As i write this i realise that there are hundreds of alternative birthday surprise weekends that needn't give me (or her) a dilemma -- so why proceed with this one?? Nonetheless i would be very interested to hear other people's opinions on what is or isn't wise for a woman in the early stages of preganncy to do.
Thanks everyone