You know, I just applied for a job oline that I could do with my eyes closed.
NVQ idn relevant subject? Post grad cert, in fact.
Expereicne, refs? yesp.
Chances are I will not get it (they also asked for a vocational qual as preference, and although I have other better quals, my degree means I cannot get vocational training funding any more).
Used to exactly teh job though.
And on the rare chance I could get it? Well, i;d have to persuade SSD to put the nanny funding we've been promised in palce (Special Needs Nanny).
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My friend is being tkaen to court because her autistic son refuses school: SSD say there is a waiting list of 8 months before she can even be seen so she might end up losing her job as she ahs no evidence of a defence (she is a CM).
So whsilt I can't do mroe than apply for jobs I am well qualifdied for, if the system to allow me to actually accept job is pretty much bound to fall aprt- why should I be penalised? Seriously?
I keep my hyand in so I can stay practising interview skills and just feel as if I am trying but as someone who has always paid NI and is douing ehr best i refuse to accpt that I should exist on subsistence.
Luckily I have Dh who is not well off but trying and has a good cahnce of a decent income one day; if he died my clear chocie would be to lose this house, move away (doubly ahrd if you ahev had to locate SN palcements etc) and probably spend a time in a hostel 9again surely ahrder with sutistic children) or hand ds1 and ds3 over to satte care at a total cost of £4k per week to the state and a heartbreak for tehm and me.
I do not get benefits becaase I am less, or underserving- I get Carer's Allowance, practically, for ojne reason: it is cheaper for the state to pay me to care than to deliver it themselves. By a long way. Anything that works aaginst that will rsult in many people giving up and putting thir kids into state palcements.
As for the comment about taking kids into care- oh for heaven's sake! I am a good parent, just a silly idea.