I'm with Clarissimo here.
dd1 woudn't cope in MS regardless of what help you gave her.
the only way she'd cope would be to be segregated, and then that's not inclusion, is it?
dd1 is currently at a SN school, and we're heading for an Educational tribunal in July to keep her there.
we moved across the country 18 months ago to keep her out of mainstream, and will be moving again next month now we have found the school she needs.
She is at a tiny school now, and has a full time 1-1 (all the children there do)
dd1 spends half her time in a classroom on her own with 1-1 (all the children have their own classrooms) and the other half being in a class of up to 3 children (each 1-1 there as well, so children always fully supported)
dd1 is ASD, and fairly severe, but not as severe as the above sounds.
BUT, this is the only way she can relax enough to be able to learn. if she is not in this kind of environment, she clams up, shuts down, and disengages entirely. she spent the whole of last year in a SN school, with a class size of 10 (with 3 teachers). by the end of the year she had not progressed one jot (school were not even aware of her abiliites, tbh)
in one term at her new school, dd1 has learnt to:
dress/undress
wash up (water phobic) and set the table
make her lunch
and that's just the vocational stuff (I sya just - the dressing thing is a real boost for me )
educationally, she has:
learnt to count with reference
learnt the alphabet/phonics, and is beginnign to read
is consistently meeting all P scale targets, and is actually working at NC level 1 in some areas (am at this. dd1 is 5, she is in Yr 1. she is actually holding her own in some areas )
but none of this was possible in MS, or even in a SNU attached to MS, it is only by tailorinng he reducation so very exactly to her needs that this has come about.