My OH has treatable but incurable cancer so is basically on borrowed time, although currently living a "normal" life, going to work, hobbies, short break holidays, etc.
He's been offered all kinds of "freebies" from free hospital car park passes, blue badge, consultations with "advisers" about claiming carer's allowance, PIP, motability, etc., offer of some "disability" advisor from the council to provide us with disability aids at home, etc etc.
Thing is, he's neither asked for any of this, nor needs any of it. It's like a whole industry of its' own has sprung up. In fact when first diagnosed, his appointment with some kind of "benefits" advisor at the hospital came through before the date on which his first round of Chemo started!
Fair enough for people who actually need it, of course, the support should be there, but when you're bombarded with offers of freebies and advice/support that you've not asked for and don't need, it kinds of sticks in the throat a bit!
We've no doubt the time will come when we do need help and we do need things like car park passes and blue badges at the very least when mobility starts to become a problem, and there'll be a time when he has to give up work and go on disability benefits/claim carers allowance, etc., but it's not yet.
If only they were so quick and efficient when it comes to medical things, like dealing with his monthly battle to get his chemo drugs prescribed properly which they simply can't manage - they either get the wrong date, or issue the wrong drug dose, or lose the blood test results needed to authorise the prescription, or make an appointment to pick them up but don't bother telling him the time/date, etc! That's what causes us the most stress, not paying a couple of quid for the car park!