OP, I was discussing this exact question with the other day, but from the reverse POV.
When the Tories got back in in 1992, I was disappointed from a wider political perspective, but actually, it didn't really affect me very much personally. Now, despite the fact that we run our own business and it is doing well in terms of customers, it feels like the cuts are definitely impacting on us as a family.
The main difference, I think, is that we used to live in a city. If you're in a city, there's always provision because of the critical mass of population, if you can pay for it. So bus/train fares may go up, funding for school trips may be cut, arts subsidies will go. But if you've got a well paid job you can pay the high fares, go to a private hospital, send your DC to Stagecoach / private music lessons, etc etc.
Now we live in a very rural area. Everything is marginal. You can't pay your way out of things, no matter how prosperous you are, because the services just won't be there. DD goes to the one state school that everyone else goes to, and so she is suffering from the cuts to teaching and support staff.
Also, people in my town are losing their public sector jobs - that means they don't have money to spend in the shops, which means the shops won't be there for me to use either. The Royal Mail, which I depend on for my business, is also being cut - we've just heard that collection services are going to be reduced, I suspect meaning we won't get a collection every day.
So even from a personal, selfish perspective, there is a big disadvantage to me from austerity.