ledkr, that's not quite the point.
"What i wouldn't do during this period of hardship is have another baby"
I agree. Deciding to have a baby after loosing your job and in a position of serious hardship is not the best idea.
But come on, use your imagination a little! Can't you think of ways that people end up on benefits with 4 kids, other than having more kids while already on benefits.
Off the top of my head, what about:
people who had 4 kids while in well paid, apparently secure jobs and then:
- lost the jobs through redundancy
- lost an income because one of the couple dies, forcing the other to quit their job as can no longer afford childcare
- had to quit their job because of becoming a carer for elderly and unwell family members. or disabled children, for example.
How can you justify adding further hardships to people in these positions?
Or how about those on benefits who got pregnant by accident. No form of contraception is 100% effective after all. Or how about my friend who got pregnant 5 years after being told she was 100% definitely, sterile (after cancer treatment)? Surely you are not so inhumane to suggest that they should be forced to have abortions? (Or sterilisation even?!) Why should they and their suffer in this position?
And what if the parents have created children while living in poverty? Who does it help exactly to push those children further into poverty? As it's the children who will suffer most here. And society as a whole if we push more people onto poverty, can't you see that?!