niceguy-
What scrutiny? Is there a vetting system? I would be very interested to know more about it if there was.
So if an MP says "Well I hired my wife to be my secretary because she's got some experience, she's willing to work the hours I am and obviously the commute isn't an issue. I did look at others but for x,y,z reasons I concluded they were not suitable." Then what's your issue with that?
The problem with that is that it's hypothetical. You're considering one best case scenario and assuming the honesty and the best intentions while ignoring every other possible scenario.
In an imaginary world, this could happen:
All PA candidates would be reviewed for the job anonymously by an independent panel, except that the one candidate who was also the spouse would be noted as such. The panel could take this in to consideration for 'no commute times' and 'high trust'. However, they would have no special interest (ie. £20-30K) in hiring him or her over anyone else. All candidates would be considered on equal terms. If the spouse is hired, so be it.
That's not what happens. In reality:
MP decides he or she needs a PA. Decides that awarding their spouse the job would be a nice extra income. Even if their spouse is already working, it's always nicer to have a job where your job is your husband or wife. MP chooses spouse over more qualified candidates because of the perks.
You are assuming that any MP hiring a family member is guilty of nepotism until proven otherwise. Is that the sort of society you want? Because I don't. There may be a few bad eggs still but then frankly you'd get that everywhere. I bet there are corrupt police, incompetent nurses etc. It doesn't make them all bad.
I'm not assuming that they will. I'm saying that the system allows them to do this. In the same way that I don't think that every employer is racist, yet we still need anti-discrimination laws. Nepotism should be illegal.
Finally, you're right, I don't generally have much faith, or trust in MPs. In fact, I hold most of them in contempt, and I think you should too. Not just one or two, but scores of MPs were found to have made fraudulent claims:
The United Kingdom parliamentary expenses scandal was a major political scandal triggered by the leak[1] and subsequent publication by the Telegraph Group in 2009 of expense claims made by members of the United Kingdom Parliament over several years. Public outrage was caused by disclosure of widespread actual and alleged misuse of the permitted allowances and expenses claimed by Members of Parliament (MPs), following failed attempts by parliament to prevent disclosure under Freedom of Information legislation. The scandal aroused widespread anger among the UK public against MPs and a loss of confidence in politics. It resulted in a large number of resignations, sackings, de-selections and retirement announcements, together with public apologies and the repayment of expenses. Several members or former members of the House of Commons, and members of the House of Lords, were prosecuted and sentenced to terms of imprisonment. The scandal also created pressure for political reform extending well beyond the issue of expenses and led to the Parliament elected in 2005 being referred to as the 'Rotten Parliament'.[2][3][4] (Wikipedia)
These are the MPs you expect people to trust? The same ones who commit widespread fraud with impunity?