Also adding to the info on childcare - I pay annually just shy of £14,000 for one child to attend full time at a day nursery. Before tax this means I need to earn around £19,000 just to cover these costs.
This is for a standard nursery in one of the most expensive parts of the country (where I am also hit with some of the highest house prices and travel costs in the country) so while I earn what many would see as a good salary, like everyone I have still been hit hard by recent events (fuel rises, no pay rises, tax increases, food costs rising, increased lending rates on mortgages), and will be hit further when I loose child benefit as a result of being "well off".
Taxes are not dependent on location or affordability, so I have to say that while I am a higher rate tax payer I am significantly worse off than many of my family who live in one of the cheapest parts of the country and who are not higher rate tax payers.
How wealthy you feel will more than likely depend on your disposable income rather than the figure your company pay you, so while I understand why someone on £10,000 a year thinks a higher rate tax payer is extremely well off, I know this to be untrue and would never judge anothers wealth soley on what they earn.
I think no matter what is announced in the budget, life for everyone is going to continue to be tough for a few more years, which is frankly bloody depressing.