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What can I read at an interment?

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peggywho · 24/03/2009 22:44

My brother died last year. At the weekend we are interring his ashes in my mother and fathers grave. Finances are tight so for this part we are not having a vicar. We thought a reading or a poem would be good.
My brother was a larger than life character who had a wonderful sense of humour.
I am trying to think of something suitable...did think of Larkin's 'This be the verse' but then not. Also thought of 'Do not stand at my grave and weep' but have been crying a lot since he died.
What I would really like is something uplifting and very funny (and can include some sweary words!)
Any suggestions??

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peggywho · 26/03/2009 17:19

looks like if we could bring you back again.
Thanks

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BetsyBoop · 25/03/2009 20:12

how about

Not, How Did He Die, But How Did He Live?
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Not how did he die, but how did he live?
Not what did he gain, but what did he give?
These are the units to measure the worth
Of a man as a man, regardless of birth.
Not, what was his church, nor what was his creed?
But had he befriended those really in need?
Was he ever ready, with word of good cheer,
To bring back a smile, to banish a tear?
Not what did the sketch in the newspaper say,
But how many were sorry when he passed away.

or

If We Could Bring You Back Again
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If we could bring you back again,
For one more hour or day,
We?d express all our unspoken love;
We?d have countless things to say.

If we could bring you back again,
We?d say we treasured you,
And that your presence in our lives
Meant more than we ever knew.

If we could bring you back again,
To tell you what we should,
You?d know how much we miss you now,
And if we could, we would

or

Let Me Go
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When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little, but not for long
And not with your head bowed low
Remember the love that once we shared
Miss me, but let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all part of the master plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart
Go the friends we know.
Laugh at all the things we used to do
Miss me, but let me go.

When I am dead my dearest
Sing no sad songs for me
Plant thou no roses at my head
Nor shady cypress tree
Be the green grass above me
With showers and dewdrops wet
And if thou wilt remember
And if thou wilt, forget.

I shall not see the shadows,
I shall not fear the rain;
I shall not hear the nightingale
Sing on as if in pain;
And dreaming through the twilight
That doth not rise nor set,
Haply I may remember,
And haply may forget.

peggywho · 25/03/2009 16:55

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