@Meadowblossom I'm glad to hear that. Go gently, and find God's breath in the small things. 
@RVN123 welcome. What a horrendous tragedy for you and your family. I am so very sorry for your loss. Sometimes there are just no words in times like this, but I totally understand your anger, it's very normal. I always look to the Psalms when feeling like this because you can see the writers there sharing their raw anger - at the world, at injustice, at grief, at God. Where are you, God? They say. It's good to find a kind of resonance there, an admittance that things aren't always easy and sparkly with faith (far from it.) And it's good to realise that God is okay with that anger. He created us with great capacity for love and with awareness of injustice and sadness, and our anger flows from that. In those Psalms, the writers always get their pain out then make a decision to trust, to 'yet praise', and I've found that very powerful in my own life. However there are also some times when it's okay to sit back and allow those emotions to happen, to mourn, to shout. You don't have to suppress them. God understands.
I don't have answers to the age old problem of suffering. No one does. It's interesting to me though that our suffering comes from a place of absolute knowledge that death and destruction in any form is not how it is supposed to be. Deep down, we know we are made for beauty, purpose and life, we know there are moral absolutes which is why we respond to news articles of great shocking injustice with so much horror. We know that there should be justice. We can only know that if life isn't arbitrary; if there is a God who has made us and loves us, who gave us choice. If everything is random, where can we locate our absolute certainty of injustice, our overwhelming love that leads to such great sadness at times like these.
I don't have answers. But we are here to listen to you, to hear your pain, to hold it with you. To pray for you.
Father, I lift your child to you now.
Where she is broken, would you soothe over her cracks.
Where she is raging, would you rage with her against the evil and injustice of what has happened to her.
Where she is despairing, would you bring hope in the ashes.
Where she is scared for the future, would you bring peace.
Where she is uncertain of your love, will you surround her in your everlasting arms.
Amen.