YoucancallmeQueenBee I know the feeling. I struggled to make sense of it before realising that there was none.
We can look at how it comes about though. At it's simplest we can say that no one wants to know they will die eventually and when things get tough no one wants to be alone. I expect everyone gets times when they wish someone else could be in charge of their life and making the decisions. But how people go from wishing to 'knowing' is a constant source of amazement to me.
MostlyLovingLurchers Oh I agree you can't always wait for proof. If someone guesses out of desperation that is ok. If the evidence either way is thin than you make an educated guess based on best data so far, and that is fine too. We all do that in many areas. We're nearly always short of complete information.
What I suppose I object to is someone guessing and then going around telling people this is a cure. If people say "Hey this might be coincidence, but I ate cherries for a week and my cold cleared up" that wouldn't be a problem. I might even try the cherries myself. I wouldn't 'have faith' in them. I'd be aware they were a long shot. And of course of someone proved they didn't work I'd accept that.
LadyInDisguise You asked what proof there was that reincarnation didn't exist and implied that if there was none that would be a good reason to believe it did. No one who understands the way science works would say that as it makes no sense.
When I say I have no belief I mean I don't accept anything as certainly true/false based on guesswork. Which of course would be required to be religious or superstitious.
Show me that box I mentioned before. If I have no way to determine what is inside I will NOT choose something like an apple and forevermore believe there's an apple in there. That to me is madness. Especially when someone else is free to believe there's an orange in there.
Consider that I have never been to New York. So I don't believe it exists. I don't believe that it doesn't exist either. Both are irrational positions. I do have indirect evidence that it exists. 1000s of films which showed glimpses, references to it in 1000s of places. Chance remarks by people who have no obvious reason to lie to me and so on.
So the existence of New York is tagged in my mind as 'probably true'.
Btw you didn't tell me how you choose and why you do not believe in talking teapots