To think there is no excuse for mothers names not being on marriage certificates when fathers names are requested?

Blu Better replace the House of Lords with a Senate elected by proportional representation and a veto on non-Money Bills; after which the succession to the peerage would not matter.

if I got married, both our fathers are deseased, what then, they just leave blank??

Andrewofgg

I was 12 when my father died. The registrar was quite put out that i couldn't tell him my father's occupation - but honestly most 12 year olds wouldn't know details and I was 12 the last time dad's job was mentioned to me. "He worked in an office at " was all I managed to say. To be honest I didn't need the registrar having a go at me for not knowing his actual job title in the middle of the wedding. If I'd been told in advance that I needed to know then I would have asked but no-one ever told me

No, surro, they fill in the section with "(deceased)" after parent's name or not, if they're trying to wind up future historians.

The reason for asking at all is that parents are still a good additional identifier of which Jane Smith you are: Jane Smith dau of John Smith and Margaret maiden surname Macdonald.

But there's Smith the baker and Smith the post, so occupations are added as well, to help distinguish.

I suppose it could be replaced by, say, NI numbers now. But not everyone present in the UK has an NI number, especially if they're only visiting to get married in British partner's childhood town.

And NI numbers aren't visible in the other BMD records, where almost everyone has the same parents at birth as at marriage, so the certificates match and you can follow people through.

ebwy. How pointlessly mean.

It can be left off. My father is not on my marriage certificate; he had such a vague appearance in my life that I felt very strongly he had no place in my marriage. The registrar's only concern was that people might use my marriage certificate in the future for tracing family history, that wasn't a good enough reason for me. My birth certificate could be used for that.

Tbh even if I had an amazing relationship with my dad I would still have been raging about the sexism and left him off.

PartialFancy

Yeah, most of the guests thought so too. One of the ushers (a cousin) had to be talked out of "showing him he can't get away with upsetting the bride like that!"

I put my mother on the spot asking her, she was embarassed and upset so her mind went blank... so he was put down as "clerk" when in fact he was a purchasing manager.

I had to tell the idiot to add "(deceased)" and spell it for him!

So you understand just how poor the England and Wales records are in comparison to the Scottish ones. And how women's information is valued on the Scottish certificates and absent from the E&W ones.

England & Wales marriage (format since 1837)

When married: First May 1910
Groom's name: Charles James Johnson
Age: 21
Condition: Bachelor
Profession: Brass Dresser
Groom's residence: St Gabriels parish Birmingham
Groom's father: Charles Johnson decd, Labourer

Bride's name: Phoebe Horton
Age: 20
Condition: Spinster
Profession: -
Bride's residence: St Gabriels parish Birmingham
Bride's father: Henry Morton, Galvaniser
[minister, witnesses, place...]

Scotland marriage (format since 1855)

When, Where and How Married:
1897 on the Twenty-third day of December at Bridge Street Station Hotel, Glasgow, After Publication according to the Forms of the Free Church of Scotland

Groom's Signature, Rank or Profession, Whether Single or Widowed:
Robert Hamilton, Colliery Salesman (Bachelor)
Age: 27
Usual Residence: 19 Abbotsford Place, Glasgow
Father: Peter Hamilton, Wright & Builder, and
Mother: Elizabeth Hamilton M[aiden] S[urname] Mellor

Bride's Signature, Rank or Profession, Whether Single or Widowed: Elizabeth Marchbank, Tailoress (Spinster)
Age: 25
Usual Residence: 133 Hospital Street, Glasgow
Father: James Marchbank, Grocer (Retired), and
Mother: Elizabeth Marchbank, M.S. Baillie (deceased)
[minister, witnesses...]

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Similar story with death certificates.

England & Wales death certificate

Date and place of death: Eighteenth of November 1841 at Cheetham
Name: Duncan Campbell
Sex: Male
Maiden name: -
Age: 44 years
Occupation: Shopkeeper
Informant and their usual address: Jane Campbell Daughter Present at the Death 2 Johnson Street Cheetham
Cause of Death: Asthma
[registrar...]


Scottish death certificate (format since 1855)

Name, Rank or Profession, Whether Single or Widowed:
John Grant Higgins, Cutlery Grinder (Married to Ellen Keenan)
When and Where Died: 1902 October Seventeenth 0h 15m a.m. Victoria Infirmary, usual residence 105 Wolseley Street Glasgow
Sex: M
Age: 36 years
Father: Henry Higgins, Marine Engineer (deceased)
Mother: Sarah Higgins M.S. Grant (deceased)
Cause of Death: Fractured Ribs Shock as cert byThos Anderson MN, ChB
Informant and their usual address: Ellen Higgins, Widow (Present), 105 Wolseley Street Glasgow
[registrar...]