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Breast feeding constant poops and nappy rash hell

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DogsandDungarees · 23/12/2025 12:30

Hi I have posted before but my little one ( 3 weeks old) has had persistent nappy rash for over two weeks so non stop creams from the GP different nappies ect. We just can’t get on top of it as she poops all the time. So if she is napping I will check see she needs changing , change her which wakes her up so she then wants to go onto the breast which of course then makes her nap and poop again.

its a endless cycle of pooping ( which midwives assure me is normal ) but her nappy rash is completely stressing me out. Would I be better to move her onto formula to control her feeding more this way ensures she gets enough and I can get control of her poops better. She was also born at 38 weeks and is only small so I also constantly worry whether she is getting enough.

Thank you for reading x

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The1990club · 24/12/2025 18:27

DogsandDungarees · 23/12/2025 12:30

Hi I have posted before but my little one ( 3 weeks old) has had persistent nappy rash for over two weeks so non stop creams from the GP different nappies ect. We just can’t get on top of it as she poops all the time. So if she is napping I will check see she needs changing , change her which wakes her up so she then wants to go onto the breast which of course then makes her nap and poop again.

its a endless cycle of pooping ( which midwives assure me is normal ) but her nappy rash is completely stressing me out. Would I be better to move her onto formula to control her feeding more this way ensures she gets enough and I can get control of her poops better. She was also born at 38 weeks and is only small so I also constantly worry whether she is getting enough.

Thank you for reading x

I had this with both of my children, I was in tears over it, both developed large open sores on the bottom, nothing I did worked. A lot of suggestions also did not work, they both just constantly pooped

With my daughter I had to use pampers nappies and the doctors prescribed timodine this seemed to do the tick when used with the yellow metanium

My son got the same and I thought hurrah I know how to fix it but it didn't work for him. He didn't wear a nappy for 4 months honestly it was hell. In the end I bought ilex cream which stuck like a pritt stick to the skin creating a waterproof barrier so the skin could heal underneath, this worked. 30g tube was about £50. You cannot buy it anymore, I think 3M caviilion cream is similar

I never met any other parent who suffered this way with the nappy rash. ( the skin on their bums was just open like red red raw patches of no skin) Honestly its so so tough and like you I considered formula to solve the issue but neither of mine would take a bottle.

I also had to not use wet wipes but water and wool. My daughter was ok with the huggies wipes which were like tissue.

Im sorry you are going through this, at about 4 month both of my children seemed to start regulating their bowels.

Tammygirl12 · 24/12/2025 18:27

Cut out dairy. This was my first baby and I insisted this couldn’t be the issue. It was

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SleafordSods · 24/12/2025 18:28

Ramblingaway · 24/12/2025 18:25

Could you be switching breasts too often? I know I did at first and that meant immense amounts of runny poos (think 10 a day). I was worried that one breast was empty and so swapping over every 15 minutes and giving too much of the runnier foremilk. I stopped doing that, baby got a bit older and by 12 weeks I had the opposite problem, one poo a week 🙄

I can remember DD going for 10 days by this stage and the sense of dread about the impending Poonami…💩Grin

FunnyOrca · 24/12/2025 19:14

DogsandDungarees · 24/12/2025 18:11

Hmmm I did wonder about this. She’s started to look more expressive when pooping. Almost like a straining look for a baby, but I didn’t know if this was just how babies start ‘communicating ‘ they are pooping or if she was uncomfortable.

Around this time she will begin to strain more. Babies don’t actually know how to get wind, poo, wee or burps out. They are learning and sometimes that means straining the wrong thing in trial and error. Your baby will be straining over the next few weeks and will be upset at times trying to perform bodily functions. A degree of this is normal. They usually figure it out around 8-10 weeks (just in time for the poop to turn really acidic from the vaccines! 😂). If you are concerned about the amount of distress she is in, call your health visitor.

Has the GP or Health Visitor shown you how to apply the prescribed nappy cream or watched you do it? We were being too conservative in our application. I was shocked at how much our baby needed.

DogsandDungarees · 24/12/2025 19:30

SleafordSods · 24/12/2025 18:15

No rashes isn’t really a sign. I have non-Ige CMPA and dont have a rash but I do get lots of the other signs.

Personally I wouldn’t cut out dairy from your diet yet unless she’s actually screaming after every feed.

Pooping after every feed can be normal, however you feed your baby. DS was BF and pooped pretty constantly at that age.

The congestion could be normal congestion following a c-section. What did the MWs say about her congestion and sneezing before they discharged you?

They said sneezing was fine and expected and that she had a lot of mucus from the C section. Thanks for your replies everyone , I did try canesten anti fungal prescribed by GP but it made it worse

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DogsandDungarees · 24/12/2025 19:32

The1990club · 24/12/2025 18:27

I had this with both of my children, I was in tears over it, both developed large open sores on the bottom, nothing I did worked. A lot of suggestions also did not work, they both just constantly pooped

With my daughter I had to use pampers nappies and the doctors prescribed timodine this seemed to do the tick when used with the yellow metanium

My son got the same and I thought hurrah I know how to fix it but it didn't work for him. He didn't wear a nappy for 4 months honestly it was hell. In the end I bought ilex cream which stuck like a pritt stick to the skin creating a waterproof barrier so the skin could heal underneath, this worked. 30g tube was about £50. You cannot buy it anymore, I think 3M caviilion cream is similar

I never met any other parent who suffered this way with the nappy rash. ( the skin on their bums was just open like red red raw patches of no skin) Honestly its so so tough and like you I considered formula to solve the issue but neither of mine would take a bottle.

I also had to not use wet wipes but water and wool. My daughter was ok with the huggies wipes which were like tissue.

Im sorry you are going through this, at about 4 month both of my children seemed to start regulating their bowels.

Thank you for your reply, it’s honestly driving me mad this nappy rash certainly making me emotional xx

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Ramblingaway · 24/12/2025 21:15

And just to think outside of the box, could it be an allergy to the nappies? Have you tried changing brand? Could be totally unrelated to the poo!

DogsandDungarees · 24/12/2025 22:19

Ramblingaway · 24/12/2025 21:15

And just to think outside of the box, could it be an allergy to the nappies? Have you tried changing brand? Could be totally unrelated to the poo!

Thank you but I’ve tried a fair few now

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ObsidianTree · 24/12/2025 22:26

My daughter was breastfed but always had a sore butt/ nappy rash/funny poos. Random crying too but I just always thought she was fussy. Now at 7 she has a dairy/lactose intolerance. I wonder now if it was this that made her poop give her nappy rash. So I suggest try a lactofree diet yourself incase it's lactose in your milk coming though from what you eat and drink.

SaveMeFromMyBoobs · 24/12/2025 23:39

ObsidianTree · 24/12/2025 22:26

My daughter was breastfed but always had a sore butt/ nappy rash/funny poos. Random crying too but I just always thought she was fussy. Now at 7 she has a dairy/lactose intolerance. I wonder now if it was this that made her poop give her nappy rash. So I suggest try a lactofree diet yourself incase it's lactose in your milk coming though from what you eat and drink.

Lactose (a sugar) intolerance is extremely rare in babies that haven't recently been unwell, its usually the Cow's Milk Proteins like casein and whey to which they have the allergy (hence CMPA).

A dairy free diet would eliminate both the protein and the lactose. A lactose free diet would only remove the sugar.

SaveMeFromMyBoobs · 25/12/2025 00:01

Just to add that post may sound pedantic but it actually makes a big difference.

For example hard cheeses like cheddar - low lactose. 0.1g per 100g. Lots of lactose intolerant people are OK with it. But has 25g per 100g of Cow's Milk Proteins. Very bad for someone with CMPA.

Soya milk. Zero lactose. Great alternative for a lactose intolerant person. But the soya protein is very similar to Cow's Milk Protein, so approx 50% of babies with non-IgE CMPA are also allergic to soy protein (mine included!) so a dairy exclusion diet for CMPA is usually also recommended to be soya protein free. So you can't replace dairy products with soya, need to do oat for example.

Lots of crisps like frazzles, doritos, pringles, walkers (not all flavours) will often contain milk protein, lactose or both. Proper dairy free exclusion diets are really tough to start with, lots of accidental exposures, but they do get easier and I managed 2 years in the end! Wasn't just dairy free, baby turned out to have other allergies that was reacting to in my breast milk. Eggs, nuts etc also possible.

Thatonenight · 25/12/2025 00:04

They poo more with the bottle plus the rashes are worse. You need to layer on that barrier Creme after every nappy change. Use cotton wool and water to clean their bum as well.

SleafordSods · 25/12/2025 07:53

Have to agree about lactose intolerance being extremely rare, although obviously it can happen. If there’s an allergy it’s much more likely to be CMPA which affects roughly one in ten babies. Soya isn’t an ideal substitute either as around half of all people with CMPA are also allergic to the proteins in Soya as the molecules as so similar.

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