Hi everyone,
I'm hoping that I can get some friendly advice on this sensitive subject area.
Over the weekend I had a birthday party fo my dd . I invited a few friends over who have pre-school kids. One of the kids (3yrs) went up to my sister and asked her quite clearly "why don't you go back to where you came from?". (My sis is asian). Both my dh, and sis' dh and another Mum heard this comment. The boy's Mum was not in the immediate area so of course didn't hear the comment.
Needless to say we are all pretty upset over this sort of comment as it is a phrase we haven't heard in a long time. Incidentally we are NOT blaming or condeming the little boy IN ANY WAY whatsoever - after all he is still a small child and totally unaware of the comment he made. However it saddens me to think that the little boy must have heard it from someone else in order to repeat it. I know that he could have picked it up from his pre-school group or whereever, but I also can't help thinking it may have come from his parents. His parents aren't particulary close to us but I don't know whether to just a) ignore the comments, b) ignore the parents or c)tell his mum in some way that won't either offend her or send her flying off the handle or d) something else.
Any comments on the matter are appreciated.
M
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