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how much do your parents buy your kids at Christmas?

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sugarbaby · 20/12/2005 18:15

Today my mother came round to drop off some cards and I casually asked her if she had finished her Christmas shopping. She replied that she only had a few things left to buy but that her living room was full of presents, and that they are all for my DS and my nephew. I asked how much she had bought, to which she rattled off a long list of things she had bought for each of them! She must have bought them upwards of 15 presents each and I would like to bet she's spent probably between £150/£200 on each child! Now I realize that grandparents wish to indulge their grandchildren but isn't this just a bit extreme? i feel almost as if it's like an obsession with her! to see how much she can spend. Last year when I pointed out that perhaps she had spent enough on the kids she replied "how much is enough?".

So was wondering, am I the only one? or is there anyone else out there whose parents try to outdo you when it comes to buying presents for your own kids?

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twirlingaroundthechristmastree · 24/12/2005 09:12

DD is an only grandchild both sides - and normally receives a £10 present from each side - which doesn't seem much to me; neither set of grandparents is exactly poor.

I buy her a lot myself though...although if I bought less, they would buy more I think.

Conversely, if they bought more I would buy less!

izzybiz · 24/12/2005 09:42

my mum and dad spend about £150 on my DS hes 13, and my DD is only 19 months so she gets a little less but my inlaws probably spend about £30, but they have more to buy for.

julienetmum · 28/12/2005 23:06

Well it wasn't quite as bad as I thought it would be.

From my parents dd got:

a bike, a baking set, a noddy game, elc cut and play food, my 1st CD & remote control fire engine

ds got:

a bike, pretend tool set, shirt & little people farm

From pil's dd got:

talking fifi, bumble, fifi colouring book, jigsaw, walkie talkies, Cinderella DVD & picnic basket

ds got:

little people circus, Big Cook Little Cook DVD, a catwheeling tigger, mega blocks truck, a Simon says thing thing you sit on and spin around, toy car and pretend telephone.

It could have been far worse.

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fireflyfairy2 · 28/12/2005 23:38

oh gawwwdddd...

My MIL is a pain in the a$$!! I specifically told her what we were getting DD...she arrived up on xmas day with a far better one (leap-pad) with more books with it. I almost had a row with her, but went to the kitchen and downed rose wine instead Also with the leap-pad was a huge thick book that MIL told her she was only allowed to look at and not touch (whats the point?) and a jewellery box.. with jewellery..lots of sweets.. something else that I can't remember. For ds: A talking bear (for over age 3, he is one) two other v-tech things.. I don't know why I bother buying them anything for MIL and FIL to come in and upstage 'santa' on xmas morning

My parents bought them pyjamas and a book

mymama · 29/12/2005 10:40

Both my parents passed on . MIL spends about $2 australian between 3 children if we are lucky. Expects an expensive gift herself though!!!!

daisiesinaline · 29/12/2005 10:57

MIL spends about £50 on each child (lots of little stuff and one bigger thing) but I don't mind cos she lives far away and hardly sees them. My mum about £10 on each child. (she lives far away too)

Although have to say, MIL always seems to duplicate my main present to them! Which is really irritating! Even when I tell her what I am buying them. GRR

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