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What was life like in the UK in 1982

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Its5656 · 07/11/2023 18:56

Of the back of a 90s thread I saw earlier I was wondering What was life like in the UK in 1982, the year I was born.
I lived in council housing in London. Mum was 17 and dad a 23 year old bricklayer.
I'm not in contact with them so can't ask but I remember it being pretty bleak for the most part but also some good.. fruit and veg markets and stalls in Woolwich, pie & mash shops with my Nan. I also remember seeing punks and football violence. And the storm in 1987.
Just wondering.. What would life have been like from an adults perspective in 1982?

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RancidOldHag · 07/11/2023 21:56

The moral panic of the day was about video nasties

VHS players has first appeared in the late 1970s, any by 1982, quite a lot of people had them, and hire shops were beginning to appear. As were video nasties (the advertising for Driller Killer, Cannibal Holocaust and I Spit On Your Grave being particularly notorious). It didn't help that there was no classification on videos until 1984 (act passed) and 1985 (came in to effect).

Mary Whitehouse going strong. People mocked her like crazy, but I think we need to have those discussions on what sort of standards are right, and there really isn't a figurehead any more to keep the issue going

RancidOldHag · 07/11/2023 22:00

And IIRC the demon dog of the day was the rottweiler (started with The Omen in the late 70s)

BethDuttonsTwin · 07/11/2023 22:08

I was 11. Living in Colchester. No McDonald’s just a really small KFC, no one really rated it, we all preferred Wimpy! Findus crispy pancakes or Vesta meals for tea. Roast every Sunday. Angel Delight or instant whip for pudding. We liked “Nutty” bars, Caramac and 10p mix - you got loads of sweets for £10p.

Girls wore tight jeans with “wedge” haircuts, lots of flicky fringes. We listened to Depeche Mode, Duran Duran, Fun Boy Three and Bananarama. We loved boys who could breakdance 😁 and they all wore slip on shoes with white socks if they were trendy.

Went absolutely everywhere on bikes.

Running home from school to watch the kids shows which started at 3.45 and finished with Top Cat at about 5.30 I think. TV on Saturdays was World Of Sport and on the other channel Grandstand - ALL DAY LONG. So boring! No TV at all in the mornings on weekdays, just the test card until lunchtime when the little kids shows came on. Except during school holidays when you had kids TV all morning.

We had a van who came onto the estate with basic groceries and he’d sell you cigarettes for your parents 😲 “20 Superkings for my Mum Please!” and they were £1 a pack.

I remember bills always waited till the red one arrived and my Mum ranting about how high the electric bill was.

Furniture was 3 Piece Suites - ours was brown velour, and always a coffee table in the middle of the room. Ashtrays everywhere, parents smoking in bed - ads on the TV warning against doing that because of fire danger.

Better times, if only for the fact you could run out of school and get completely away from the bullies and not have to deal with them on social media. However school were absolutely crap at dealing with bullying and they didn’t care much if you achieved anything either - not like now with OFSTED and achievement tables/ranking.

BethDuttonsTwin · 07/11/2023 22:10

Also Happy Eater or Little Chef restaurants at every motorway services and it was a MASSIVE treat to eat there.

OnlyTheBravest · 07/11/2023 22:11

I was still at primary school.
Being a kid was fantastic. School was much more liberal. At one point we didn't even get end of year reports. Very creative curriculum filled with music, sport and art as well as learning the basics.
Children were expected to behave and parents were on the side of the school. Smacking was a thing and we all have stories of ducking the chalk/shoe.
Very little homework. You came home got changed and headed to the park to play. All the kids played out. Once you had a bike you could go anywhere. Your parents had no idea, everyone went in for dinner at 6pm and in summer back out until the street lights turned on.
In winter kids programmes were only on till 6pm and there were only 3 channels. (Grange Hill, Byker Grove and Newsround )
There was a feel of community and street parties were awesome.
Very few cars were around and adults looked out for children. You could be told off by anyone. Front doors were only locked at night.
I grew up free, with very clear boundaries. London borough.

Cookerhood · 07/11/2023 22:14

I was at university (1st/2nd year). It was such a different world. It's hard to remember how we managed without mobile phones. How did we ever meet up? 😂
1982 was the year of the Falklands war which was quite frightening. Also Thatcher & political unrest. Great music.
We drank beer & cider, seldom spirits. No nails/beauty treatments. Lots of people smoked.
No-one I knew had a job at uni, it wasn't really a thing. A lot of people got full grants. I didn't, I had minimum grant (£410 the first year, £205 after that. My dad did a "deed of covalent which allowed him to give me ?£150/term tax free, I think. I did work in the holidays.

Lettingitallhang · 07/11/2023 22:14

I was 14 and had a blast. Etam , Chelsea girl , roller discos, day glo , deely boppers, excellent music / TOTP , girl guides and Rangers . Camping out in local park with my friends through school summer hols. Didn't have any worries . Girls were happy being girls and boys were happy being boys. Great times at school and a great life. I always try to keep the way of life and mindset I had then even now I don't let any of todays crap affect my life . I loved the 80s and am pleased I was part of it .

Whataretheodds · 07/11/2023 22:14

Ashes to Ashes the TV series is set in 1981. You might enjoy getting a flavour for life in London back then from watching it.

Cotswoldbee · 07/11/2023 22:15

Was 17 in 1982, great times. 😁

Was in my second year at work, going to college (day release), got my driving licence and was out every night!

The office where I was working at the time would be unrecognisable to people now with an ashtray on every desk and a permanent smokey atmosphere but not a single computer. Sign-in book at the beginning of the day (where a red line was draw at 8am showing who was late!) and we always called the senior manager "sir" (when he deemed to come down from his ivory tower). As a trainee, I knew my place.
My next office was even better, a proper licenced bar off the restaurant where you could drink at lunchtimes and then after work, staying late into the evening. Various company clubs and associations used the bar, at least one a night. Tea trolly came round the office every morning and afternoon where a nice bun or cake was available to go with the tea (out of a huge urn and no coffee).

I often had to go down to London (and other city's) for training courses and I remember how grimy London always looked, going around the West-End in the evening was fun at the time but I was never tempted back out of choice.

The fact that I was in work, doing a college course and already travelling around the UK, my parents had no qualms about leaving me home alone while they went abroad for 2-3 weeks as they knew I could be trusted (something that from reading threads on MN, seems unusual to some).

We didn't have a phone at home back then (wasn't that we couldn't afford one, M&D just didn't want one) so calls were made from the phone box at the end of our road, sneaking a call through the operator at work or popping to see my nan and using her phone (leaving the money for the call on the telephone table).
A friend had a phone but it was a party line so if the neighbour was using it, they had to wait until they finished.

We had a video (from Radio Rentals) but one thing that was NEVER recorded was TOTP as that was compulsory viewing (7pm Thursday?) and you went out afterwards.

As all my crowd were working we all had (old) cars so were very mobile and would travel around (more than some), would often go across to another town for the evening. The fact that we were all driving at 17-18 seems strange nowadays where youngsters seem to rely on M&D more. That said, the cars were rather old but we learnt to DRIVE them (choke knob with a clothes peg on it, no power steering or electric windows and headlights that glowed like glow-worms). Also we all knew how to change a wheel or do a jump start (a regular occurrence with our old tubs 😖).

fetchacloth · 07/11/2023 22:16

I was 18 in 1982 and it was a great time to be alive.
I had just left home from a sleepy village to Birmingham. The freedom of nights out at concerts, night clubs and making new friends was fantastic.
Money went further: no expensive tech to buy. No one had mobile phones, computers or tablets. Laptops hadn't been invented.
Your own time belonged to you, no after work or weekend emails from work.
We've lost so many things the last 30 years or so. Sometimes I feel we've gone backwards really 😕

madamepresident · 07/11/2023 22:17

I was 4 - lived in the NE. Vaguely remembering getting a VHS player , playing in the garden in a paddling pool and practically everybody smoked. Walking to the newsagents with my grandad and him buying 20 Embassy red , the Daily Mirror and a packet of Spangles for me. My great grandad had an allotment so spent a lot of time there with him - we ate very well, loads of fresh veg. Winters were freezing. Me and my mum four a hosie the following year and (I was just discussing this with my kids the tiger day ) I can remember we had no herring upstairs and only single glazed windows. The windows would be iced up on a winters morning. We didn't have a lot but I can remember being happy.

FatCatatPaddingtonStation · 07/11/2023 22:22

I was 7, in a middle class commuter belt town. Both parents were very politically active - us kids made a picture of Maggie T into a dart board. Later, I was taken on support rallies for the miners, and my mum moved to Greenham on and off and was arrested several times.

At home, I was considered a tomboy as we were called then, and had short hair and wore jeans mainly. Weekends I would be out all day on my bike, miles from home and well into the evenings in the summer. I’d make sandwiches in the morning to take out with me. I hung about with a group of boys mainly, some quite a bit older. Climbing trees, dens, railway embankments etc. A bit of I’ll show you yours if you show me mine went on which looking back is seriously dodgy given some were a few years older but it didn’t worry me. I went to the playground or school fetes etc alone or with other kids, parents never came.

Lots of mums didn’t work and collected kids from school although I walked and lots of mums were dressed traditionally in tweed skirts and sensible shoes. This seemed strange to me as my mum dressed fashionably and worked full time.

School dinners were vile! We sat at a table with a teacher and someone was monitor and had to serve everyone. No choice, hot meals on plates, water in glasses. Liver and powdered mash. 🤢 I started making my own packed lunches.

I remember getting a colour tv but we weren’t allowed to watch it much.

Cat wasn’t allowed inside at night, one of the last jobs was to put the cat out, whatever the weather. I sneaked him back in sometimes and hid him in my room.

HeddaGarbled · 07/11/2023 22:26

I was teacher training in a fairly deprived area. Unemployment was high, so I don’t really recognise some of PP’s descriptions of great times. And then we had the Falklands war. I remember it as actually being a worrying time.

ErrolTheDragon · 07/11/2023 22:28

Money went further: no expensive tech to buy. No one had mobile phones, computers or tablets. Laptops hadn't been invented.

A few people had computers - the Sinclair ZX spectrum and the Commodore 64 were both introduced in 1982, for instance. My now-DH got one of the latter probably in 1983...I find it hard now to believe we could do anything on it with just 64KB of RAM.

(If anyone is at all interested in techy stuff from this era on, I'll recommend the series Halt and Catch Fire)

GotNewHair · 07/11/2023 22:29

Yeah I remember it like tothesea but with ice rink discos. Snogging speed skaters and smoking on buses. Fun

houselikeashed · 07/11/2023 22:31

OMG - Instant Whip! Butterscotch was my favourite. With a dollop of ice cream in the middle of it.
I was heavily involved in learning a musical instrument and my LEA invested heavily in me. My parents could never have afforded what the county offered me. 1hr private lesson per week - 52 weeks a year, with any teacher in the UK. LEA picked up teachers fees plus travel costs. When I auditioned for music college, they paid my audition fee's and overnight accommodation in London.
Such an amazing scheme. I don't believe there is anything like that now.

suitsmetoo · 07/11/2023 22:31

I was 8. Walked to school and back on my own every day (or caught up with other kids walking) Don't remember my mum getting me ready the way I get my kids ready, I sorted myself out. You didn't dare be late or you might get the cane.

School was very chill. Lots of art, lots of DT, LOADS of preparation for school plays. I swear the prep for the xmas play started in October, but the play was actually good because of all the practices. Kids knew their lines properly and were then taught how to act (unlike shit school plays today)

I remember lots of workmen and randoms just wandering around school. There was no 'reception' to go to or to 'sign in' - people just wandered into the main corridor where the coats were all hanging up and literally grabbed a passing kid to ask where the Headmaster's office was. I don't think I knew who was 'admin', we just knew our teachers.

Always an ice cream van outside - lemonade lollies were 15p which seemed expensive.

After school you would use the house phone to ring your friend and find out if there were in and it was worth walking round to. Everyone just played out. Everyone had a bike and it was a big thing getting a new bike for xmas. Weekends were boring - literally nohting to do on a Sunday as everything was shut. Made your own entertainment. Read a lot of books and was always playing with my Sindy dolls. I was very upset that my own daughter had zero interest in playing with dolls properly - it's my fondest childhood memory.

Remember being hungry - a lot. No such things as 'snacks' just 3 meals a day. If you didn't like it, tough. No such thing as ready meals. Meat, potatoes, veg. Puddings were a rarity - Ice Magic came out about then though so as a treat we would have that with vanilla ice cream!

Remember being cold. Beds were freezing - no duvets. Didn't get a duvet until 1984 and we were considered 'rich' to have them. Showers unheard of. Bath once a week after everyone else had had one - I was the youngest so got the lukewarm dirty water. Only washed my hair once a week - never got greasy though. Ice on the inside of windows in the winter.

TrishyLou1111 · 07/11/2023 22:35

WASZPy · 07/11/2023 19:35

I was born in 79 so obviously don't clearly remember 82. I do remember things being much more lax health and safety-wise. My dad smoked in the house and the car. I remember sleeping laid across the back seat of the car on long journeys with no seat-belt. I was given a tiny glass of wine with Sunday dinner from about 4 years old.

I also remember my much older brother going out looking like Ziggy Stardust.

This sounds like my childhood 😄

Ugghh · 07/11/2023 22:39

@bombastix We had a sticky Garfield but it was in a yellow Ford Escord with tiger seat covers !

foreverbasil · 07/11/2023 22:39

I don't recall it being a fab easygoing time at all. I think the UK was very divided. There had been the riots in the summer of 1981. There were no jobs in vast swathes of the north. There was the terror of cruise missiles. Lots of protests at Greenham Common, CND marches and Anti-Apartheid demos. We were aware of AIDS.
Going to London was very different. There was money around. I recall early goth clubs and lots of accessible live music. The GLC used to put on free concerts ( May have been slightly later).
Lots of people lived in terrible damp and overcrowded flats, or squats. Lots of second hand cheap fashion, vertical hair and spent a lot of time in smoky bars and clubs.

BitOutOfPractice · 07/11/2023 22:41

Everyone was well off @KnittedCardi? You know that there was a massive recession and unemployment was the highest since the 30s?

annieloulou · 07/11/2023 22:48

I was 14 in 1982, obsessed with the charts and Smash Hits. TV was 3 channels until November 82 when Channel 4 started - Brookside, The Tube and Comic Strip Presents.

Ra Ra skirts, leg warmers a la Kids from Fame. Was devastated when The Jam split up at the end of the year. Going round to friends houses on the weekends, taking albums to play, going into town and trying clothes on in Chelsea Girl, sitting on the stairs on the house phone to my friend then my dad shouting to my mum “is she still on that phone?”

spookehtooth · 07/11/2023 22:49

I was 6. I remember some of the newspaper headlines from the Falklands war, I used to look through some of the newspapers my Dad took home from his day at work.

I remember being at Butlins, and my brother still has one of the Spanish world cup mugs from that year's world cup. I remember my mum bringing the comics my brother and I read into the bedroom one morning, swimming in the swimming pool and looking out the window at people walking past. I also remember my mum trying to use some make up on my brother and I to help us look like pirates for some fancy dress thing, and some nasty kids laughing at us, probably just because we were boys, and making us feel stupid and embarrassed. I think there's some photos of that, and with my adult eyes I can see she did alright and they were dicks. Overall it was a good holiday, but the place is tarnished by the fact that, as an adult, I arrived there on a holiday with my youngest daughter for her birthday the day before my Dad died. She got to have her holiday with her mum, but i had to go home to be with my brother and sort it out

GuitarGeorgina · 07/11/2023 22:50

I was 10, living on one of the biggest and grimmest council housing estates in Manchester. It was a really scary place to live, and I was terrified of walking down the street. Flashers were common, dogs ran wild.

We didn’t have a TV until 1989, so I lived for books and magazines. I went to the library twice a week. The highlight of the week was Smash Hits.

There felt like a huge gap between the lifestyle of those who had money and those who didn’t, much more so than now,

DramaAlpaca · 07/11/2023 22:50

I turned 18 in 1982. It was a wonderful time for me in my little sheltered bubble of life. I worked really hard at my A levels so I could leave home and go to university, on a full grant so everything was paid for and it went a long way in my northern university city. I wasn't at all politically aware, life was all about music, fashion, having fun, and just enough studying to keep out of trouble. It was a very different time.