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marthamoo · 14/10/2004 14:29

I just bumped into a friend who I haven't seen since before the Summer holidays. She has a ds the same age as ds2 - almost 3. Over the summer he choked on a grape (was wolfing them down, like they do). She tried everything to shift it and, realising it wasn't budging, called an ambulance - he was turning blue and almost unconscious by the time it came. He's fine now - but I thought I would pass on the warning.

She asked me "do you cut grapes in half?" and - smug Mum that I am - I said yes. I always do: I read somewhere that grapes and cherry tomatoes are a choking hazard. But I reckon if she didn't know - then it's worth passing on.

Did cross my mind that if one was to pinch grapes in a supermarket one should carry a knife in order to cut them in half first - and that could be construed as going with intent to steal But we won't go there again, eh?

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Wallace · 14/10/2004 17:09

Is it better to cut them in half length-wise, not across? I'm sure I remember that from somewhere.

My kids are 5 and 3 and I don't cut grapes and haven't for ages, but I do feel fairly confident that I know what to do if they choke. Also I always make sure they are sitting down eating (like in a supermarket trolley )not running around

CleanKittyCat · 14/10/2004 18:18

I know it sounds stupid but I actually had to attend the funeral of a 12 year old boy who died on a PEA!! He had an astma attack while he was eating some and one ended up in his lungs.

Sorry To be a troll but be careful if anyone chokes on food as it can really"go down the wrong hole" Only meant this as a warning apologise to any who are upset by this nasty incident.

yurtgirl · 14/10/2004 20:18

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EvesMama · 14/10/2004 20:25

thanks 4 that marthamoo, dd loves grapes and used to cut them up when she was smaller, but havent done for sometime. have just told dp and we wil now start again..thankyou

SueW · 14/10/2004 22:19

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nutcracker · 14/10/2004 22:21

I always tend to be careful with kids and grapes anyway since i was eating one and the juice went down the wrong way, sounds funny but i have never been so scared as i struggled to get my breath.

nutcracker · 14/10/2004 22:25

OMG Have just read your post Suzy and am in stitches now, dp thinks i've lost the plot

acer · 14/10/2004 22:27

When I was in a supermarket once, my ds was sat in the trolley eating grapes and an old man came up to me and said that it was good to see a child sitting whilst eating grapes as his grandson had been running through a supermarket eating one, fell and choked and DIED! God how terrible, I took the grapes off him and now they only have them cut up in a bowl when sitting at the table or on the sofa.

Thomcat · 14/10/2004 22:34

Scary! Lottie will only eat frozen grapes! I di bit each one in 1/2 though.

I've actually been meaning to ask if anyone can see a problem with me serving her FROZEN grapes (that have been bitten in 1/2)?

acer · 14/10/2004 22:36

No problem, as long as you watch her, but how did she come to like them this way, does she actually eat them or just suck them?

wobblyknicks · 14/10/2004 22:53

Sorry to also sound as if I'm hijacking this thread but have been really scared of dd choking at any time because of the thought of how long it would take an ambulance person to get there and deal with it and what could have happened in that time.

A while ago dd started choking, she hadn't eaten anything at all, must have been spit that went down the wrong way but I couldn't get her to clear it and her lips were going blueish. So I phoned 999 and carried on trying to get her to breathe and (typical baby) she started just as the call was ending, so I told the operator that she seemed to be breathing ok. They said someone would be coming anyway though. A long 5 minutes later a motorbike paramedic arrived and I watched out of the window (holding dd who was by then normal as anything). He spent ages (and I mean ages) by his bike doing something with a clipboard and I thought well naturally he's not rushing in as he knows it's not an emergency. However, then he came up to the door and I went to let him in and he looked really REALLY surprised to see dd in my arms and ok, and he hadn't known anything about her getting better while I was on the phone. So surely he must have thought she was still choking - in which case he would probably have been outside staring at paper as she lost consciousnesses and maybe got brain damage or died!!!

Was too embarrassed and shocked at the time to say anything but have thought about that ever since!!!

acer · 14/10/2004 22:55

That is terrible!!!!!

wobblyknicks · 14/10/2004 22:57

Didn't mean that to be a sympathy vote, am interested whether that was an unfortunate one in a million or whether there's something to be worried about!!!

acer · 14/10/2004 23:00

Definatley something to worry about. My ds hwent into anaphaltic shock (sorry about spelling) We called an ambulance, 5 - 10 mins later no sign of it, so we jumped in the car and drove him there, I cancelled the ambulance on the way. I panic and can't wait when something bad happens so I don't think I would bother with 999 again

wobblyknicks · 14/10/2004 23:02

It's just REALLY scary to think that if something happened where you only had minutes to spare, that help wouldn't be there!!

Thomcat · 14/10/2004 23:03

Acer - well we froze them on holiday to put in our drinks, rather than ice and she grabbed one out from the bowl we had them in ate one and then didn't stop. She would never eat a grape before, even if I peeled them! She LOVES them frozen, eats about 10 or so and still asks for more. And they go straight in get chewed and swallowed, no sucking! I do bit them in half for her since that first one and never leave her alone eating anything but her toast.

Nome · 14/10/2004 23:39

This might help. Very scary when something gets stuck.

littletree · 15/10/2004 06:12

Oh my goodness! Thank you for the warning- DS loves grapes and I have never cut them in half- bad mummy. I will now though....

marthamoo · 15/10/2004 07:12

That's a fantastic link nome - I didn't know you could do a First Aid course online. It's one of those things I always intend to do - and never seem to have time - too late, of course, by the time you need it. I do know, roughly, what to do if a child chokes - but one of my friends did a First Aid course and she said afterwards she felt like she would just go into auto-pilot in an emergency and not panic so much.

I'm glad I posted now (did consider that I might be nanny-state scaremongering, but judging by how many people have said they know of someone who's choked to death, I guess not )

And Wallace, length-wise makes more sense to me too - makes them more streamlined!

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codswallop · 15/10/2004 11:04

thought of this as ds3 puked grape all over me last night

mumtochloe · 15/10/2004 12:14

Choking is my biggest phobia and scares the living hell out of me. So much in fact that I hate giving DD grapes etc. Have always cut them in half when I do but then I worry until she has finished them and NEVER let her eat while she is playing etc, she always has to be sitting down.

Doesn't being a parent turn a normal sane person into a nervous wreck!

WigWamBam · 15/10/2004 12:22

Are grapes any more of a choking hazard than anything else? I have to admit that I've never cut them up for my daughter, she loves them and always has, but I always assume that as she's always chewed her food well she would be OK. Why are grapes and tomatoes worse than bites of other food?

Not trying to be funny or anything, I'd just like to know.

mumtochloe · 15/10/2004 13:07

Probably because of their shape and that they can roll maybe. Or maybe because of the size. Who knows!

marthamoo · 16/10/2004 16:52

I assume it's because of the skin and the shape: they won't start to dissolve as they are waterproof and the shape they are could form a sort of plug in the throat. Agreed, though, you can choke on anything.

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