thanks so much pixiefish,
no the problem is geting even messier.
They clearly do not want us to build the extension and are doing everything possible to stop it.
the latest is our surveyor has issued party wall notices three times ,last ones were invalid because they did not include drawings that incorporated the neighbours drains and foundations..
Both surveyors are meeting here wednesday am to look at the big hole dug by dh to expose said foundations on our house.We have also been told that they can refuse to give us permission to allow the eaves to overhang their property in the extended new build ,eventhough they already overhang.
It looks to me like we have no rights to do anything.If your friend is right then that's great because we could step the extension in so there's no overhang,but we still need to put up scaffolding.
God I hope we can ,this is so stressfull.We have been told by their surveyor not to communicate with them re. the extension.
These are not reasonable people.I have heard from other sources that the husband is an evil awkward person,and his reputation at a certain highstreet bank,where he worked, was not good.
I wish they had opposed at the planning stage and we would not have bothered going this far ,and just moved.We have taken down our conservatory in preparation !
It makes me so mad.