I have lived in London all my life and as I have hit the big 40 this year believe there must be more to life than negotiating the tube everyday, along with the really horrible estate I live on, the lack of good schools etc etc. The problem is I dont know where to go - it cant be too far from London as my dp would not be able to change jobs -I too have thought of Brighton or somewhere on its way there - I would really be grateful for any suggestions - thanks