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Is it to weird? Or should I tell them to keep out of it?

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PipBeckett · 08/03/2004 21:46

I'm trying to arrange ds2's baptism for in a few weeks time. Two of the godparents to be live in Canada and are flying to England totally out of the blue so I'm grabbing the opportunity while they are here.

The problem is that like most churches these days, ours doesn't have a full time vicar. He's shared between several churches and on the Sunday I want ds2 baptised he isn't available. Members of the congregation and elders of the church take it in turns to do services when he isn't there and currently there is no one down to do a service on this date.

My dad quite regularly takes the church service and when he doesn't, he leads the Sunday school. When I mentioned to my parents that the vicar wasn't available my dad asked what I thought about him doing it. I thought it was a lovely idea and would make things extra special but quite a few people have given me negative comments. My dh thinks it's a good idea and he says that what we think is all that matters.

Is it weird having your dad baptise your child or should I view it as special?

BTW the church is United Reform and there is an area in their guide which allows church members to take special services and baptisms.

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MrsCodswallop · 09/03/2004 12:04

ineptitude.

Twinkie · 09/03/2004 12:06

I think they must be jealous - Can't think of anything nicer than your father baptising your son - go for it!! XXX

eidsvold · 09/03/2004 21:11

ignore the silly negative comments - I think it would make it all the more meaningful having your dad do it ... ahd your dh is right.

doormat · 09/03/2004 21:13

PB defo take it as something special

as everyone says ignore the neg comments as they are probably jealous
hope it goes well

150percent · 09/03/2004 21:20

I can only manage that some in the congregation are just worried that your dad will go overboard in his adoration of his grandson!

For me, I would be worried if there was another baptism at the same service:- there's a risk that the other family would feel uncomfortable if your ds's baptism was obviously such a family affair.

Our pastor dedicated his grandson a few months ago - very obviously the proud grandfather, and it was all the more lovely for it.

PipBeckett · 10/03/2004 00:51

Thanks for all your support. It's not uppermost in my mind at the moment now because of how ill he is. (4 month old struggling to breathe - thread)

The negative people were one of my friends and my sister. My sister very much against baptism anyway but want's to be a godparent. Figure that one out!

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slug · 10/03/2004 10:06

My parents were married by my dad's cousin, who also babtised a few of us. My brother was married by his wife's uncle and the whole experience made for a really lovely family occasion.

I can't think of anything nicer.

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