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Whats the NICEST thing anyone has ever said to you

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Beccarollover · 05/02/2004 11:37

I got a card from my Dad once that said inside

You give single mothers a good name

Was very touched and still often think of it

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nutcracker · 05/02/2004 13:30

Well done Angeliz, you've just manged to make me laugh (and choke on my tea). Thanx for that

A women once came over to me in a cafe and said "you have lovely, lovely children, so well behaved too, little angels".
Have to say i nearly cried as i was having a bad day (just for a change).

Beccarollover · 05/02/2004 13:33

Yes! Lets practice being NICE and post if we do a particularly good job of it

The other day in a cafe an old man spilt his coffee all over the tray as he wasnt very steady and looked really upset - the woman started tutting and sighing I could have punched her so I told him to sit down and I'd bring one over for him - he was SOOOOOOOOOOOOO grateful it was really worth doing and made me feel good too - was worth it for the look on the stupid cow behind the counters face - hope she never gets old and frail as Ill not be helping her! grrrrrrrr

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StressyHead · 05/02/2004 13:34

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CountessDracula · 05/02/2004 13:38

A friend of my MIL's once said (to my MIL not me) that I was the most beautiful woman she had ever seen. She is obviously blind and/or mad - I am not hideous but certainly not beautiful, just shows that beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

Still made me feel all nice though!

Angeliz · 05/02/2004 13:39

Glad to hear it Nutcracker!

aloha · 05/02/2004 13:40

I left a boyfriend of five years, and he said, "I've have the best moments of my whole life with you" (still left him though!)
Ds said, "You are a lovely little lady' the other day. (not to mention thinking Gwyneth Paltrow was me!!!! Hooray!!! Stupid but great)
And of course, I have had things said to me here that have made me want to die with embarassment but have just totally made my day.

handlemecarefully · 05/02/2004 13:41

Beccarollover,

You are such a nice person to do that!

Stressyhead,

What a moral victory - I'm impressed (sadly in my case I would have been dragged off said woman at a much earlier stage and taken into police custody for assault!)

Thomcat · 05/02/2004 13:43

Stressyhead - what a lovely man you have. That was a great and satisfying thing to do.

nice one Becca. Can't think of the last nice thing I did for someone....

Oh well - I did enter my mum for that makeover they were asking people for on the media request thing on mumsnet and she / we have been accepted! So I guess that was nice but don't think it counts.

A random act of kindness for a stranger......

Okay I have one but it's about 3 weeks old -
A lady in a wheelchair, (oh my God this is Sainsburys again!!), was coming out of Sainsburys (!) and she had a basket of shopping balanced on her knees. The whole thing toppled over and her shopping went everywhere. Loads of people scrabbled around picking stuff up and then as I put the last apple back in her basket I said 'let me just carry the whole basket aye, we're both going to the carpark' and I helped her load it into her car. It wasn't a big thing or anything but it was so nice just to walk along to the car chatting her and it was only when I'd closed her boot and she gave my hand a little squeeze that I realised what a nice moment I'd just had, do you know what I mean?

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squirmyworm · 05/02/2004 13:50

know exactly what you mean Thomcat. don't know if it's just me being a big wuss after having a baby but sometimes I get all choked up and have this big wave of affection for someone while I'm out and about - always a total stranger, ususally someone who is elderly and shopping on their own. I either end up giving them huge grins at the end of every shopping aisle (so they prob think I'm a mad stalker) or offering to let them go before me in the queue. I've also turned into my mum in that I will strike up conversation with anyone who happens to be standing next to me - about the weather, other people in the queue, the price of potatoes - you name it. Usually leads to a nice little chat but sometimes you can tell they think you are a bit weird and kind of shuffle away. oh well. I love stressyhead's story - having the little smile and chat with someone who has run over your foot with their trolley can actually be quite rewarding in that it usually reduces my stress levels and makes me realise that it probably was an accident. I always reckon it's better for my mental health to try to smile and make friends with someone you think has been rude rather than curse them all day....

nutcracker · 05/02/2004 13:57

A friend of mine who lives in a 3 bed house on this estate siad that she would swap properties with me in a flash once her eldest leaves home. I know she means it too, it's just the type of lovley person she is.

Thomcat · 05/02/2004 14:02

L&LOL Bron - fantastic!!!!!!!!!!

And squirmy - I so know where you are coming from. Fo example - I so over do the thank you's when someone lets me out or pulls over for me in the car!

I'm not really a huge believer in God but did go to church for a while and had catholic classes every week for a year when Ii was pregnant and the one great thing I got from it was that after every lesson and every service I came out really wanting to be a better person, and was, for a bit, then I'd start being snappy, miserable old bag again until the next visit to church.

Having read and being involved in this thread has made me feel the same way and I want to rush out and do something nice for somone i've never met!
Honestly it's given me a good feeling, well done Becca

marthamoo · 05/02/2004 16:34

We took ds1 (then 3) on a five and a half hour train journey down to Wales once. Dh slept most of the way. I had taken a rucksack full of stuff to keep ds1 amused - comics, crayons, stickers, books etc., we'd sung songs, played games, but after 5 hours we had done everything - I found a pair of nail scissors in my bag and made chains of dancing people, snowflakes etc. When we finally reached our destination two old ladies who'd been on a nearby table the whole journey came up to me and said what a delightful and well-behaved child ds1 was and (to him) "you are a lucky boy to have such a wonderful Mummy!" - Still gives me a warm glow

The other one was my Dad - and he didn't even say it. He's your typical over-achieving, high flying, absent father - man of few words and not very affectionate/emotional at all. I never knew as a child if he was proud of me or not, and always had that feeling that I was never quite good enough. When I got my (four) A'levels and rang him at work and reeled off my grades he said "is that all?" - I was heart-broken.

When I went to pick up my degree results, I rang home straight away and he answered the phone (I was hoping for Mum!) I said "Dad, I got a 2:1"...nothing...complete silence. I stood there, feeling like a complete failure - wondering if he knew how it was virtually impossible to get a First, and then my Mum came on the 'phone. "He's disappointed isn't he?" I said. "Oh love," she said "he's so proud of you he can't speak - he's crying."

And now I am too..oooh that father/daughter thing

CountessDracula · 05/02/2004 16:43

Yes you are pregnant

twiglett · 05/02/2004 16:43

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lavender1 · 05/02/2004 16:44

marthamoo, that's lovely, got a bit tearful reading the father bit at the end

Thomcat · 05/02/2004 16:44

Oh Marthamoo - I so wasn't expecting that at the end, which I guess you weren't at the time, that it made me really gulp. How lovely, bless.

Glad you posted, not only becasue that was so nice, but because I thought I'd scared everyone off with mentioning the G.O. D. word!!

WideWebWitch · 05/02/2004 17:11

Gosh, me too marthamoo. How lovely. One of mine is: "I'd be completely honoured if you were the mother of my children" from ex dh (before he was ex, obviously!)

eddm · 05/02/2004 17:13

Speaking of Dads, mine is also the sort who doesn't hand out compliments or tell you he loves you but the first time I ever wore a 'grown up' dress (age about 14 or 15) he just said 'wow, aren't you beautiful' which made me quite tearful.

crystaltips · 05/02/2004 17:22

Oh Marthamoo - tears over here now !!

My DH said last night to me ...." D'you know - you're my best friend"

Bless

HiddenSpirit · 06/02/2004 01:26

One of the things that springs to mind at mo is....

Before DP and I were living together, he was here visiting one night and we were just sitting cuddling and having a yap when he turned round and said he believes we were made for each other

This may seem corny to a lot of people, but you have to know my DP. He's not one for showing emotion (it took him over 2 years to realise he loved me ) so this meant the world to me and made me feel so special. Still get goosebumps thinking about it

fisil · 06/02/2004 07:25

Last night at parents evening:

"My daughter used to be really bad at maths until she came here, but since she had you teach her she loves it and it is her best subject. I was really shocked when she won the maths prize for being the best in year 7"

"Mum, this is my maths teacher but really she should be a comedian, she's really funny in lessons."

Then when I got home, dp said "as I was putting ds to bed he said, 'Daddy, isn't Mummy a lovely lady'" As he is 1 year old, he clearly didn't say that, but it touched me anyway.

Twinkie · 06/02/2004 08:28

God this thread is making me cry.

Thomcat saw a family with a beautiful little girl with DS last week in our local greasy spoon and their love for her must ave been what yours is for lottie - you could see the love and happiness that they had between them and the whole cafe were laughing and waving to them when they went and more than one of the big dirty men in there said what a wonderful beautiful child she was.

My bestest moment was - When the judge asked what DP tought of me he told him there and then that he loves me to bits and then when the judge asked him about DD he said that he feels exactly the same and loves her to bits too and that he knew me and DD were a package when he met me and it never once put him off - sounds silly but when I was sitting there looking at him in that incredibly stressful situation and hearing him say that I felt so in love with him.

Also when at a barbecue last summer a self confessed batchelor said to DP that if he ever had a child he would want one just like DD as he thought she was wonderful. As did a man peeing next to DP in a pub last year after DD had been round the whole pub asking people what their names were and how old they were and keeping them all amused for the whole afternoon whilst me and DP had a few beers.

oliveoil · 06/02/2004 08:47

Someone told me last week that I reminded them of someone and when I asked who they said 'one of The Corrs'. (and if anyone posts 'the bloke' I will be peeved )

Dh's granddad who is about 82 said that dd has made him want to live till he is 100, that made me teary eyed as he is not too well.

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