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How do you all keep father christmas alive

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happycat · 23/10/2003 10:50

The other thread about christmas has got me thinking just how do you keep father christmas alive.Has any of you got any tips on how you can prolong this magical time.Anything different.Also how do you cope when you have an older one and they start to work it out,it hasn't happened yet.Saw my first christmas advert on t.v last night so its here.

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happycat · 23/10/2003 10:51

Sorry it would have helped if I had given it a title

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CountessDracula · 23/10/2003 10:55

Was it on here that someone said get your wellies out and sprinkle some icing sugar round them so you make snowy footprints near the fireplace?

I suspect a lot of kids still go along with it even after they secretly know it's not true!

bobsmum · 23/10/2003 11:01

Can't speak from my own parenting experience yet, as ds is only 13 months.

But when I started asking my mum and dad about Santa, they always seemed to have an answer for me.
In one house, we didn't have a chimney, so Santa came in through the loft hatch. That's where we had to leave his milk and biscuits and a carrot for Rudolph (all always gone by morning).

One year my dad (I know this now ) hid round the back of our house and rattled some jingle bells at about 4 in the morning. My mum called us outside claiming she could see the sleigh flying off our roof.

Another year, my dad climbed out of the velux window and stamped reindeer footprints in the snow on our roof.

Santa never made our christmas presents in his workshop, the elves couldn't make My Little Ponies , but my mum and dad would have a look round the shops for him and tell him where to go to get the right presents (he was so busy you see).

We posted our letters to Santa by sending them up my gran and grampa's chimney (a real tradition for years).

The most convincing Christmas for me, was when my grandparents stayed with us and so my brother, m and d were all sleeping in the same room. Kids at school had told me that year that your parents were Santa and he wasn't real, so I stayed awake and watched my m and d until about 4/5 in the morning then checked outside the door to see our full stockings! Of course it didnt' occur to me for years that my gran was santa that night, but it shut the kids up at school for a while. Ahhh innocence.

CountessDracula · 23/10/2003 11:04

Oh yes, we used to put water and carrots on the flat roof for the reindeer, my dad would go out and kick over the water and chomp on the carrots and spit them everywhere so that we would think the reindeer had eaten them!

GRMUM · 23/10/2003 11:11

CD Thats a really dedicated dad !!! Love it!!

happycat · 23/10/2003 11:57

bobsmum your mum and dad sound great i can't imagine my dh going along with all that.

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mears · 23/10/2003 12:03

My older kids have always kept the secret from the younger ones because sadly that time does end. Children at school start to ridicule children who still believe. My kids have all got to age 10/11 years believing. They have come home at an earlier age from school saying 'so and so says there isn't a Santa'. To that I have said, 'that's right, if you don't believe then there isn't a Santa'. The've pondered that for a minute and said, that's OK then, he must come here

dadslib · 23/10/2003 12:24

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CathB · 23/10/2003 12:25

As a child I always found the disappearance of the glass of sherry and the mince pie very convincing!
Once he knew, the elder of the my two stepbrothers was sworn to keep it secret from the little one and it worked pretty well as he felt terribly grown up and responsible.

dadslib · 23/10/2003 12:30

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dadslib · 23/10/2003 12:32

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codswallop · 23/10/2003 12:45

I must admit I hate the lying aspect of it.
I really am suprised at myself - but I like to think we are pretty honest about things and so th whole pretence grates with me.

we do go along with it But I m positive he doesnt believe it. (aged 5!!)

sorry.

mears · 23/10/2003 12:45

Santa was in red before CocaCola Dadslib. Always has been for as long as I can remember and I am 42

NotTheCountess · 23/10/2003 12:48

Coco Cola have been around for MANY more years than 42 ! Thay were producing Coca cola in the 1890's I think. Don't know when they started using a red santa though.

I have to say that I did think that Dadslibs snippet was true.

dadslib · 23/10/2003 12:48

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mears · 23/10/2003 12:59

Checked as requested dadslib. Here's a link to the answer
santa

mears · 23/10/2003 13:01

As if I haven't got more important thing to do

iota · 23/10/2003 13:04

DL - According to ds1's story book, St Nicholas was from Myra in Turkey, not Lapland.

mears · 23/10/2003 13:06

Origins of santa here

dadslib · 23/10/2003 13:22

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mears · 23/10/2003 13:24

Totally disagree dadslib. Thank goodness it is not something important

mears · 23/10/2003 13:36

Apologies dadslib - we are both correct. He was red before coca-cola but this supports your thoery
greensanta

Enid · 23/10/2003 14:00

If it wasn't enough that you are the resident voice of reason on mumsnet, you have now managed to keep my dream of Santa alive. Thanks mears

Twinkie · 23/10/2003 14:07

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Bumblelion · 23/10/2003 14:13

I took my eldest (now nearly 11) to Lapland when I was expecting my second. She was 4 years and 9 months at the time. Although she is nearly 11 and is sceptical that F.C. exists, because she has been to Lapland and seen him, although she knows he doesn't really exist, in her mind he does because she has seen him in his home environment.