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Depictions of the one child family in books

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BoccaDellaVerita · 03/01/2009 14:32

Following the thread about where the desire to have a family of a particular size comes from, I've been thinking about the depiction of families in children's books. Of course, most families have more than one child and it's not surprising that children's books reflect this. A few that come to mind from my youth are

Narnia Chronicles 4
The Railway Children 3
Ballet Shoes 3
My Family and Other Animals 4

BabyBocca is a voracious reader and I'd like to find her a book which depicts an only child (and ideally as part of an ordinary family set-up, rather than (say) an orphan). Milly Molly Mandy is the only one I can think of but surely there are others.

Any suggestions?

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Notreallycutoutforthis · 04/01/2009 01:14

Teddy Robinson's Deborah is an only...

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Notreallycutoutforthis · 04/01/2009 01:26

It's the best purple dress isn't it?

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Racingsnake · 04/01/2009 08:57

If we are moving on to films, Anouk in Chocolat is an only.

slayerette · 04/01/2009 09:26

Chocolat is a book too though. And Anouk has a sister by the sequel, Lollipop Shoes - did Roux leave Vianne with a parting gift??

I love Teddy Robinson, btw. The best purple dress is fab. DS loves the story of the teddy bear brooch in the jelly. Another set of books I loved as a child featuring an only were the Ponder & William books (Ponder was a panda-shaped pyjama case who played a similar role in William's life to Teddy Robinson's in Deborah's).

Tamsin and Rissa not by Malcolm Saville though - Monica Edwards wrote that series! I loved them. Tamsin had a little brother Diccon, but Rissa was an only, as was Meryon, I think. Malcolm Saville wrote the Lone Pine series set in Shropshire - and I think one of the girls in that was an only.

IdrisTheDragon · 04/01/2009 09:40

Veronica in the Sadlers Wells books is an only child

Racingsnake · 04/01/2009 18:06

Oh, yes, I remember Diccon now. Rissa was very dynamic and daring and well balanced and an only - good role model.

thaliablogs · 06/01/2009 21:05

Quite a few of the Judy Blumes are onlies - including margaret in 'are you there god? It's me, Margaret' which is my all time favourite.

Miranda and Tim in the Antonia Forest Marlowe books are both onlies (with both parents around) (not protagonists but consistent and main characters), and Esther is for most of the time until a baby arrives.

Several Diana Wynne Jones protagonists are onlies - the protagonist in Fire and Hemlock, Christopher Chant (in multiple books), the boy and girl in Power of Three, Mitt in the Dalemark series, Maewen in the Crown of Dalemark.

I think all these are a bit old for your daughter, although she's not far off the Judy Blumes.

Thank you for this, I've really enjoyed this thread!

BoccaDellaVerita · 06/01/2009 21:16

Thank you for all the latest suggestions. I shall be compiling a list ....

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VerifiedLU4097 · 09/01/2009 10:38

The girl in Moondial is an only and her mother a single mum. It was written in the 80s so its right on!!

editrix · 11/01/2009 18:09

Just scanned the thread so not sure if anyone has mentioned this one but Jeremy Strong has a series of books called "Laugh your socks off" and the character Nicholas in some of the books is an only child until he's about 9 when his twin siblings (Cheese and Tomato ) come along. DS, who's nearly 6, loves these books because of the humour, but when we read the first couple (before the twins come along) I was really pleased to see a such a positive portrayal of an only child. Good antidote to the Famous Five, which DS also loves, but which I have to edit/explain when Enid Blyton makes some of her nastier comments about George's personality "problems" being due to her being an only child

UniS · 11/01/2009 21:05

in the lone pine books Malcom Savile at least some of the kids are onlies. peter (girl) is, Tom appears to be also Jen. Unless they have sibs in other books I havn't yet read.

HarrietToo · 17/01/2009 17:40

Isn't the girl in the Roman Mysteries an only child?

I think that a lot of mystery novels have an only child - for some reason, in this type of mystery novel, only children are often portrayed as being more intelligent and thoughtful than children with siblings and this seems to make them excellent detectives.

Jupiter Jones in The Three Investigator series is an only child, but also seems to be an orphan. There's an only child called Dan with a dog called Baskerville in another set of detective stories for children, but I don't remember the title of the series.

I think that Harriet in "Harriet and the Cherry Pie" is an only child.

I second the recommendation of "The Good Master" by Kate Seredy - a lovely book about the city girl coming to her cousins in the country.

Thinking of Diana Wynne Jones again, Christopher in "The Lives of Christopher Chant" is an only child, and I think that Marianne in "The Pinhoe Egg" is too (but there may be a much older brother or sister I've forgotten). Janet in "Charmed Life" is an only child, and I think that all three of the children in "A Tale of Time City" are only children. Even when Diana Wynne Jones's characters have brothers and sisters, they tend to be much much older, or not available for some reason. Everyone in "Witch Week" appears to be an only child, which for an entire school, is quite an achievement.

Steve Alton has two only children in 'The Malifex'.

A more miserable example is 'When Marnie Was There' another 80s book being right on, in which the abandoned and traumatised Anna meets the traumatised and abused Marnie, who turns out to be the ghost of her mother, and Anna realises why she was abandoned. Probably best avoided.

Coming back to the question of why are only children in books often orphans or have lost a parent - at a discussion among 4 leading childrens' authors I attended, they agreed that the first thing you have to do in a children's book is 'get rid of the parents'. Until you get rid of the parents, the young reader can't really believe that the characters are allowed to do the things they do, or that they need to do the things they do. So this can be by killing off the parents, making them extraordinarily vague (e.g. Enid Blyton), or having them frozen or otherwise incapacitated by a spell which the child then has to unfreeze (e.g. Steve Alton, Diana Wynne Jones). Another way to do it is to substitute parents with uncles and aunts, who for some reason are always portrayed as vague and easy to trick (due to not being innately aware of what the children are up to, which parents obviously are considered to be) (e.g. Tom's Midnight Garden).

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