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Have you left a nursery job too??

66 replies

Nanny31 · 04/05/2023 21:06

Hi !

Long story short I quit my nursery job. JUST!
Have you ? And why!?

P.s best thing I've ever done!

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Nanny31 · 21/05/2023 08:07

@student26 WOW! Oh yes I got sick too and actually worked when I was under the weather as no staff was available.
Glad you got yourself sorted then :-)

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Nanny31 · 21/05/2023 08:12

@NurseryNurse10 Oh right, yes that does seem alot of work. Crazy yes, I couldn't get my head around that 20 year olds were the 'boss'.....
I don't think I would ever set foot in a nursery again.
BUT surely you have good ones and bad ones! 🤔

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YouJustDoYou · 21/05/2023 08:21

Yes, hated it. Worked as a bank nursery worker across several of the company's sites in the region, as everyone else has said long, stressful hours, low pay, high stress, high demands, mostly very young apprentices/employees etc. Switched to admin officer for two of the main branches and again, low pay, very high stress and demands (hours of non-paid meetings to take minutes after hours, expectations to donate my time for the company driving around picking up covid tests etc then the owner getting shirty when I had to go pick my own kids up after hours but the nurseries had to close due to covid, accusations of "not being a team player" for not working for free for them - effing loathe that phrase), having to deal with parents ringing constantly demanding this that the other, managers demanding perfect results, could never make a mistake booking in children, nope. Just nope. Childcare just wasn't worth it at all.

Nanny31 · 21/05/2023 12:07

@YouJustDoYou Blimey! Yes, you can only take so much! Hope you have found a better path now.

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ImAMinion · 07/06/2023 23:05

Yes.

Worked my way up the ranks - started as an assistant practitioner and climbed up to deputy (combined with being room leader) - got so sick of it I went back to my original plan and ended up as a TA and now a qualified teacher.

What I loved about nursery:

The little ones! Oh the baby room - I was only in there for a few months of my 8 year stint and I wasn’t best keen on being full time in the baby room, but it was lovely when your based elsewhere to go in for a baby cuddle! What I loved is that any new adult in the room, they were always just so pleased to see you. Literally like a room of puppies.

Being able to go mad with creativity and play ideas. Of course it needed reasoning and linking to EYFS but that wasn’t hard and I loved that excuse to get messy.

Having my own key group, like my own little class.

What I did not like:

They are generally run by small groups of woman. I worked at two, one a big chain so therefore also got sent to others in the chain to cover. They get very bitchy.

So domestic. It’s not just looking after children and helping their development - in many it’s cleaning (as in full clean- clean the toilets each day, hoover, mop, bins - even the big chain had no official cleaner). Some have kitchen staff and some don’t. If they don’t, guess who washes 50 plates every lunch?

Long hours, minimum wage plus 10p if you have more responsibility, minimal holiday allowance, no perks, no reward for loyalty ( for example statutory mat leave only and never an increase). Very random but when I was at the big chain, they had a firm uniform policy but didn’t actually provide a maternity version of the uniform. If you think of the main age and sex of majority of nursery staff, seems daft.

Those few parents. Being accused of deliberately starving a child when they didn’t eat all day. They ended up sick in the night - surprise surprise. Having clearly extremely unwell children being sent in and parents ignoring phone calls and then getting snappy when staff ended up sick.

Being looked down upon. All I did was play all day of course, not a hard job.

Being deemed not a priority bill. Amazing how many parents don’t consider child care a vital bill to pay and I lost count of how many “oh well we needed to fix the car” “it is Christmas you know” “well we’ve got a lot to pay for this month” type excuses I heard.

It was pretty amazing just how much they cost to run. When I joined management and saw the books, I was shocked. Parents pay a fortune yes. But once wages are subtracted (and pensions)….insurance was ridiculously high, has and electric were always high. Food bill - I mean we were feeding 50 children 3 meals plus 2 snacks a day. Just think how much that is! Training courses - First Aid was a good £150 ish per person at least. Plus all other compulsory training. Equipment - children get through toys quickly. Sand costs loads. Paper and paint and pens and crayons……the phone and internet, iPads for journals. Cleaning products en mass. Loo roll! Nappies and wipes. Think how much your buggy cost - if one of those broke that’s a chunk out. Proper nursery furniture is something like £200 for an official high chair. General maintenance. Rent or the mortgage. Profit really was minimal - and only one late parent could send us in the red.

Never again. Only in desperation to pay my bills would I ever go back. Though it would do pretty much anything else first.

Carsarelife · 07/06/2023 23:12

Yes. This year. I've been in childcare 16 years and am now cooking in a kitchen and earning more than I was in childcare. £2 hour more to be exact

Parla92 · 30/10/2023 15:40

What do you do now? (if you don't mind me asking) I left childcare approximately 2 months ago. I have 11 plus years of work experience in childcare as an early years educator, room leader, and deputy manager with a Foundation degree in Children's and Young People's services. However, I'm struggling to find a job now. Wherever I send my CV, I either get rejected or no response.

Charliebong · 30/10/2023 16:10

Have you tried TA is secondary school? We are just beginning phonics interventions with our year 7-11s (many low ability readers) and anyone with experience in that area would be snapped up…doesn’t matter that you’re used to working in early years.

Charliebong · 30/10/2023 16:11

Sorry, “in” secondary school.

Nanny31 · 30/10/2023 19:02

@Parla92 I'm still in childcare in a Nanny role and love my job :) Also training at the moment towards work in children's Social services....

Oh! You have a lot of experience ! hope you find something soon - best wishes

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phoebelinx · 20/01/2024 06:16

Hi! I'm 18 years old and I'm currently working in a nursery doing a level 3 nursery nurse course. I was enjoying the job when I first started, but it has lately been causing me stress. I recently have had mental health issues and I feel as the job is bringing them back. Im debating on quitting the job but im unsure how, do you have any advice?

Sumsummer · 20/01/2024 18:32

Hi, hold out until you get your level 3 then leave.

I left permanent work and now work in an agency. No paper work I can say yes or no if I don't like the nursery and I leave when my shift is over.

My mental health is a lot better. You can save your holiday pay and take it in one go, work the days you want. Its bliss.

SwordToFlamethrower · 20/01/2024 18:46

And people on here constantly going on about how beneficial it is to get to work and put your kids in childcare, then you see the other side in posts like this!

It's a joke it honestly is! No wonder kids have serious mental health issues.

worldwidetravel2017 · 26/02/2024 16:15
  • low pay
  • long hours with very minimal breaks
  • hardly any thanks

" crowd control " elements.

School play ground style gossiping

Lotsa young staff

Carsarelife · 26/02/2024 16:17

@Sumsummer I'm considering doing the same. Did you join a few agencies? Is the pay slightly more than working in a nursery?

Carsarelife · 26/02/2024 16:20

I am in my early 50's and part time 22 hours ish.
Feel I'm too old to work in the nursery which is a shame as I bring a lot of experience. Reason I'm part time is I have a primary school age child so do some 9-2.30 type shifts.
Everyone I work with is 20-27 years old. The manager is older and is lovely. The assistant manager is 21 and speaks like dirt to me.
Not sure how much longer I can stay. I do like the actual job and the children

NoCloudsAllowed · 26/02/2024 16:23

Amdecre · 20/05/2023 11:05

So many staff are leaving my children's nursery. They're doing various things like NHS admin, nursing degrees, office work. Every single one has said it just comes down to the money. I don't understand why we pay people less to look after our small children than we do to run the bin lorry etc.

I suspect if men did nursery care, it would be better paid

Unions have a lot to do with it. If nursery workers went on strike it would be a very expensive thing to the economy.

Anonymousbosch39 · 26/02/2024 16:38

Yes, I'm a Deputy, handed in my notice last year despite having no other job to go to at the time.(had to give 13 weeks notice)
The job is so different, even in the space of 10 years. There are so many SEN children coming through now with needs that are sometimes unmanageable.
The wage does not reflect the graft and the hours are horrible. Also parents expectations are ridiculous.

I'm going into something very, very different now.

MrDobbs · 26/02/2024 17:52

As a parent of two children in a nursery, can I ask why people go into it and stay for as long as they do? The nursery my children go to is on site at my workplace but run by an external provider and I have to say it seems fantastic from a parents point of view - the staff seem to know all the children and care about them etc. A lot of them are young apprentices as mentioned in this thread.

But I can see what hard work it is, dealing with toddlers and all that comes with that while maintaining a calm temperament, in addition to dealing with mealtimes, accidents, cleaning, etc. It seems you could earn the same or better money doing almost anything else, and the staff I met seem to have all the skills needed to work in other environments.

TheChippendenSpook · 26/02/2024 21:11

For me it was because I was able to take my children to work with me. Then I stayed when the youngest went to school because they were a very good employer. They let me do the hours I wanted and I could always go to school plays and joining in times. They were very good and understanding when I had to take days off with my children too when they were sick.

cakewitch · 01/03/2024 08:22

This is interesting. I've just started in a nursery as kitchen staff. All the things I'm seeing in my place of employment are mirroring everything that's been said here.
The day I get accused of not being a "team player" because I won't do extra hours for free will be the day I quit.

worldwidetravel2017 · 10/03/2024 19:44

Those of you that work in a nursery - are you in a union ?

worldwidetravel2017 · 18/03/2024 16:10

Carsarelife · 26/02/2024 16:17

@Sumsummer I'm considering doing the same. Did you join a few agencies? Is the pay slightly more than working in a nursery?

Some agencies offer applicants good pay - ive been on 15 gross b4

Some take a higher amount of the profit

NurseryHusband · 27/03/2024 13:35

I run nursery with my wife. It’s disappointing (but not surprising) to hear all the horror stories of working in a nursery. My wife quit her job in a nursery (she’s a qualified and experienced teacher) as she had so many safeguarding concerns and they were doing nothing about them.
So, we’re trying to do things differently, but it’s so hard to find staff and I can see why.
We’re small (12 kids per day), maintain a ratio of 1:3 regardless of age, have 3 qualified teachers among our staff and employ a member of staff just to cover lunch breaks.
For those of you who have left nursery work, would this appeal to you enough to bring you back or would it take more?

BlueMoonOnce · 27/03/2024 21:02

Gosh NurseryHusband, how can you afford to do that?