Clary - you've just confirmed exactly the point I was trying to make. It's not as cut and dried as "Day nursery" = care (not education) and "pre-school/ nursery school" = education.
OK, so I don't know your local nursery, and you don't know mine, however I get as equally irritated by people who assume that day nursery staff have no education training.
My son's pre-school teacher was a former state nursery school teacher. Other staff had equal amounts of Early Years education training, and infact, many moved between the nursery school and the private day nursery (which included 8-6 care, if required).
The Early Years curriculum was the same in both places. That's why private nurseries are Ofsted checked - to check progress against early years learning goals.
It's also why Government funding for early years education for 3-4 year olds is transferable between different establishments. We used our 2.5 days a week 'allowance' at DS's pre-school. Establishments have to meet the same educational requirements to be eligible for this funding.
I'm sorry, but your comment,
"I do get irritated by people who confuse day nursery with the kind of nursery school we are lucky enough to have where I live tho - staffed by trained early years educators, ie teachers, which I would suggest most daycare nurseries and indeed privately run playgroups (certainly our local one) are not... " just sounds as smug and ill-informed as my NCT friend's husband