Could you provide a source for the statement that emotional dysregulation and many other traits were taken out of the criteria in one of the last revisions? I can't find any references to this online and you haven't said which revision which makes it hard to track down.
Emotional dysregulation is a supporting criteria for a diagnosis at the moment, but I can't see anything to suggest it was ever removed as a classifying criteria to make diagnosis either. The best source I can find for commentary on this point is
DSM-5 also highlights the importance of mood lability and emotional dysregulation as “an associated feature that support the diagnosis”. Although emotional dysregulation may dominate the clinical presentation Reference Barkley103–Reference Brown105], it is not a criterion for classifying individuals as it lacks specificity, occurring in many other mental health conditions.
[In my layperson terms I read this as: a pain in your foot when you walk could be because of a blister, a broken bone, a sprain or having stepped on a drawing pin. The fact that you have a pain in your foot when you walk therefore can support a diagnosis of having a blister but isn't relevant in actually diagnosing that you have a blister - it could be caused by some many things it's neither here nor there except it would make you consider whether there might be a blister. To diagnose a blister you have to have a blister.]
and
Emotional dysregulation is listed by DSM-5 as a characteristic feature of ADHD, supporting the diagnosis 113]. The type of emotional dysregulation seen in ADHD has been characterized as deficient self-regulation of emotional symptoms such as irritability, frustration and anger Reference Skirrow and Asherson114], and low frustration tolerance, temper outbursts, emotional impulsivity, and mood lability Reference Surman, Biederman, Spencer, Miller, McDermott and Faraone115]. Emotional dysregulation in ADHD is different from episodic symptoms such as marked sustained irritability occurring within the context of altered mood states, such as an episode of depression or mania. In ADHD, emotional symptoms tend to reflect short lived exaggerated changes, often in response to daily events, with rapid return to baseline within a few hours Reference Skirrow and Asherson114]. Whether the type of emotional instability seen in ADHD is qualitatively different to that seen in other chronic conditions such as borderline personality disorder or post-traumatic stress remains unclear.
(both from the 2018 European Consensus). Although this refers to DSM5 not DSM5-TR I can't find any source to suggest this point came out of the latest revision, and I would expect it to have been a material point of discussion.
I'm not trained in this area, just someone trying to understand themselves, so completely acknowledge I may be wrong but please can I have sources as I'd like to understand.
I'm also unclear about why we're talking about emotional dysregulation in a discussion about the differences between ADHD and autism diagnostic criteria because it's not a requirement for either anyway.
Finally, did I mention I have autism as well as ADHD? I suspect that a clinician could probably have diagnosed that from this post even if I hadn't said!