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Instrument Players - Come and chat (Part III)

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CoteDAzur · 08/10/2019 09:32

We continue our musical journey on the 3rd thread for amateur adult instrument players Smile

Here is our 1st thread and
here's the 2nd one.

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vintagebella · 09/11/2019 08:43

Just quietly popping my head round the door to say 'hi' Grin

In January this year, I finally started to learn violin. I'm 57 and although all of my children had music lessons I always thought it was too late for me, I should've learnt as a child. Then I had a health scare and started to think about what I really want, what would I regret not doing? Learning to play an instrument and read music was one of the deeply buried 'ambitions' I found.

I bought a violin in September 2018 but I was almost scared of it. Daft really, I bought it online but we have 2 violin/music stores nearby. Luckily I knew what to look for having done lots of research for my children's instruments. I didn't want to look like a fool or have anyone laugh at me for wanting to start violin at my age so buying online was easier.

It took until January 2019 for me to start lessons (after my son bought me 6 to start for Christmas). I've gone from being almost scared of my instrument and never practising when anyone's around, to learning to tune, playing simple tunes, the basics of reading music and really missing playing when I have to have a break.

I absolutely love it. My ambition is to join the community orchestra and learn to play with others, hopefully by the time I'm 60 (they accept players from Grade 4 level). My only regret is not starting sooner and thinking I'd be too old, or too late to learn anything new.

It's never too late Wink I look forward to dropping by every so often and keeping up with you all x

BillywilliamV · 09/11/2019 08:51

I am 55, I have been learning piano for 6 months, I am rubbish but every time I practice (every day) I get a tiny bit better. I love it!
Some days it feels like the only sane thing I do!

BillywilliamV · 09/11/2019 08:53

Vintagebella, in a few months we can form some sort of middle aged best combo! Good Luck!

BillywilliamV · 09/11/2019 08:54

Beat combo..bloody predictive texting..

CoteDAzur · 09/11/2019 09:32

Welcome vintage and Billy Smile

I had a couple of years of piano lessons as a very reluctant child who never practiced, then went back to piano and then the harpsichord enthusiastically in my 40s. I'm now a student at the local Conservatoire, where I also sing Soprano. Music has become a big part of my life and I love it Grin

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NeverEverAnythingEver · 09/11/2019 15:46

vintage My plan is to take up the violin when I retire. I play the piano now, and I had violin lessons for a couple of years, oh, about 35 years ago. Do update on progress!

RaiderOfTheKitchenCupboard · 10/11/2019 23:09

Hi! Not been on for a while, but hoping someone will be able to help...

Anyone good at working out time signatures? I’m trying to learn to play Tracy Chapman’s I used To Be A Sailor (m.youtube.com/watch?v=4lW_xnBMkow) and I’m not sure what to set my metronome to. Is it 3/4? Or 6/8? Or something else?

NeverEverAnythingEver · 11/11/2019 08:50

I'm rubbish with rhythm Grin but I make it an even beat - I find myself counting 1 & 2 & 1& 2 & ...

Tintini · 11/11/2019 09:25

Hi Raider, nice song! It's 4/4 to my ears. The strong first beat of the bar comes like this: "I used to be a SAILor....who sailed across the SEAS...but now I'm just an ISLand..." so that section would be 6 bars of 4 beats per bar.

Welcome Vintage and Billy! It's a great time to start as an adult. I think adults have a lot of advantages to child learners - definitely have motivation in that you are truly choosing to do it and have paid for lessons / instruments yourself, but also I think the theory is easier for adults to learn. I did learn as a child but play so much more now and there was loads of stuff I missed when I was younger. Now I'm able to seek out information / help and ask questions. I also understand that if I play I WILL get better - guaranteed. When I was a child I thought it was more about natural talent, and I was sort of testing myself all the time to see if I 'had it'.

My DH started piano completely from scratch 3 years ago (couldn't read music at all / never played anything even by ear / thought he was completely unmusical) and he's now able to play lots of things and he sounds good. The first year or so is the hardest bit I think but it's SO worth it if you can push through that!

NeverEverAnythingEver · 11/11/2019 09:34

Love Tracey Chapman. What a voice!

Broken11Girl · 11/11/2019 09:59

Back here and back at music after, um, life happened.
Being gentle with myself, playing fun stuff. Bach invention no.1 counts as fun. I bought a violin in spring but haven't really got on with it tbh.
Hey familiar and new people Smile
Great news Cote
On Tracy I like her too and agree with Never, 2/4 although imo telling 2 from 4 is difficult so Tintin might be right, and you def got the emphasis right on Sailor etc.

Tintini · 11/11/2019 11:00

Oh yeah it might be 2/4 of course - hard to tell those apart!

RaiderOfTheKitchenCupboard · 11/11/2019 19:15

Ah, ok... the reason I was thinking 3/4 is because of the where the chord changes are (A for 3 beats then changes to D, then a “twiddly” Dsus4 Dsus2 bit), but they don’t always fit neatly into bars.

2/4 could be right, like -

A A | A D | twiddly bit | A A | A D | twiddly bit | etc

(The twiddly bit goes something like D Dsus4 D Dsus2 D)

Thanks for your help!

FlukeSkyeRunner · 25/11/2019 12:59

Got my grade 6 piano exam this week... I've been practising scales etc for 3 hours a day (broken down into smaller chunks) for the last week and they are definitely improved.... My pieces are good I think, but I get terrible performance anxiety, so I know they won't be at their best on the day... But hopefully good enough. Really looking forward to starting some new repertoire after the exam!

I've found I've learned the most from the Chopin prelude in b minor. Not many notes, so there is nowhere to hide and it requires more expression and sensitivity than anything I've played before. I've struggled the most to get it sounding vaguely as I want it to. I have a Yamaha U1, which has a very bright tone, which is lovely, but it makes playing softly with control that little bit harder.

I always find it hard to adjust on the spot to playing an instrument I've never played before in the exam.

LooseAtTheSeams · 26/11/2019 09:06

Fluke very best of luck - if you're doing that much practice I think you'll do very well indeed.
I am trying to memorise my pieces more and not rely on reading the music. My teacher says she usually has to nag her students to actually look at the music but my challenge is to look away from it! So now I'm playing fragments, looking away, trying to play them faster, then moving on to another tricky bit!
Of course, if I practised as much as Fluke this wouldn't be an issue!

Tfoot75 · 26/11/2019 09:17

Hi, I've just seen this pop up! I play piano and passed up to grade 5 as a teen, failed grade 6 twice as I didn't play with enough expression. Gave up lessons age 15 or so but have kept on playing my favourites ever since and recently changed my ancient upright for an electric piano so I can play without the kids hearing it/when they're in bed.

I'm rubbish at sight reading and only learn popular music these days, trying to learn a few disney solos and Elton John. I find it really hard to pick up new stuff though!

Tintini · 26/11/2019 13:51

Good luck Fluke - sounds like you are well prepared.

Hello Tfoot75 - I like playing popular music too and improvising. Getting into piano blues at the moment. Trying to get better at reading two staves but I find playing around with chords much easier...and it's so tempting to just do what's easiest.

Tintini · 26/11/2019 13:53

And yes it's a godsend to have a digital piano so I can play any time of day or night!

RaiderOfTheKitchenCupboard · 27/11/2019 17:55

All the best Fluke! We had a Yamaha Clavinova at home when I was a kid and switching between that and my piano teacher’s traditional upright was always a bit odd at first. (Not that I practised nearly enough at home!!!)

Turns out the metronome in GarageBand doesn’t do 2/4, lol, but 4/4 worked out fine. I should do more ear training for sure! It’s not perfect, but I’m happy enough with it to share...

m.youtube.com/watch?v=YqLUA1y76H4

Tintini · 29/11/2019 09:33

Sounds great Raider - very professional!

MargiaStevens · 30/11/2019 12:33

Hello folks!

Multi-instrumentalist from childhood here, trying to get back into it all around work and musical child... Currently singing in a church choir and having piano lessons again in a bid to do DipABRSM. It’s weird going back to lessons and practice again but I’m enjoying it. Any tips from those of you approaching exams again?

FlukeSkyeRunner · 30/11/2019 13:58

Well, performance anxiety got the better of me in my exam. Literally shaking uncontrollably from head to foot, couldn't focus on the music at all. The pieces and scales were pretty poor. The anxiety disappeared as soon as they were done and I think the sight reading and aural went well. Hopefully well enough to make up for my terrible pieces a bit... Very frustrating, as I really do practise a lot and felt well prepared. But at the end of the day it's a performance exam, and if I can't perform well it's just one of those things. Just waiting for the results now. I really hope I've passed.

I haven't had a lesson since, so I don't know what I'll be leaving next. I've got some pieces I'd like to play if my teacher agrees - the Chopin waltz in Am (posthumous) and Gershwin's prelude no2. I also have the score for Debussy's arabesques, although I'm not sure if that's a bit too ambitious for me at the moment.

FlukeSkyeRunner · 30/11/2019 13:59

Has anyone else here played the Gershwin? Some of the stretches are physically impossible for me - I haven't got a very big span.

CoteDAzur · 30/11/2019 15:38

Sorry to hear that, Fluke. It happens to me as well, although I am normally a confident person. It's just that when I start thinking about where exactly my fingers go, I start doubting it all and I can't play Confused It happens even when I record myself, so not even related to playing for other people.

What helped me was to just say "Fuck it, I'll just play like I'm home".

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LooseAtTheSeams · 30/11/2019 18:22

Fluke I really sympathise - it's happened to me but I think you've probably done better than you think. Well done on the aural and sight reading!

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