another one who agrees wholeheartedly with Agnes' post.
I too got the 'well, you'll never get that' response, and plenty of comments about how I was 'chasing gold standard provision'
when all I wanted was a place where my dd could actually learn and fulfil her potential (whatever that may be, and wherever she ends up)
I would like to ask how and why it is that some (independent) SN school provision get LEA 'approval', and others don't?
I live in Surrey (not actually by our choice, btw - we moved for statementing reasons - another farce that needs sorting out, as we are unable ot live in the perfectly good house we own in Kent, as we would not get the same provision for our dd if we did), and dd was put into an 'approved' independent placement, paid for by the LA. it was hopeless for her, and we had a ridiculous fight to get her into a placement (ABA based) which would work for her.
the LA were happy to keep paying out fees which, if she had progressed into the main school, were about £6k less than her current placement. a lot of money, yes, but in reality the difference between dd being at that school, where she learned absolutely nothing in more than a year, and the school did not know what she was even capable of (ie a total waste of £44k), and at her current placement, where she is learning, progressing at astonishing speed, can now read and write (and type) and has a chance of (at the least) a semi-independent life - and all this for £6k more (yes, a lot of money, but a hell of a lot less than the cost of 24/7 placement once she is out of school age if she does not learn independent skills now)
why is it that LA's are so anti-ABA? we got approval for an out of county, independent placement so easily - as long as the placement was a Teacch based one (at £44k) - the LA were falling over themselves to place dd at one of 4 different independent schools. none of which would have suited dd, but they were 'approved'. whereas ABA is not to be mentioned, under any circumstances, and in many cases other services (such as SALT and portage and OT) are withdrawn if you dare startup a programme, as they are deemed 'incompatible' - what rot.
we have so far moved house 3 times (3x removals costs, plus 4 years of paying rent needlessly) funded an ABA programme at home, and self-funded an ABA school placement while we took the LA to Tribunal to get them to fund the school placement. we now live in a town we would never have considered, and have much higher housing costs, because of all this, and are unable to move closer to dd's school (16 miles away) as it is over the county border - so higher fuel costs as well. this has all cost us (conservative estimate) in the region of £125-150k. Easily. Lucky us (
) to have been able to afford it - but all in the name of trying to get dd into a school where she is able to learn. how long will this farce continue?