English, I don't believe soya is detrimental to health, no. That myth has been debunked. It was put out by the dairy industry to discredit the soya industry and those that are anti-dairy. China consume a lot of soya, and they do not have fertility issues. (Not saying they have none, but they don't have more!)
Chins also used to consume little or no dairy, and they had no or little incidences of many cancers and heart disease, ailments attributed to the consumption of dairy. The China Study, by T.Colin Campbell is a good book to start with, if truly interested. He is a doctor, born to dairy farmers, who has extensively studied the link between diet and health.
If people still have concerns about soya though, there are myriad alternatives, such as hemp milk, almond milk, oat milk, rice milk, hazelnut milk, among others. We do use alternatives, just for variety, but we have soya too. I cannot find hemp milk here, it is one of the best.
Agree that dark chocolate is vile! :)