Hello, I was wondering if anyone could give me advice or maybe share their experience of taking action due to medical negligence (or if it's worth pursuing). I'll try to shorten the story as it's a long one...
My mother before the hospital was a very fit, very active and relatively healthy 82 year old.
It revolves around my mother, she had a very long and difficult stay in hospital, all in all 4 months, she went in with an infection and delirium with diarrhoea and extreme sickness, there was no urgency to get down to what was going on with her and she was in for 3 weeks, then suddenly she had a massive bleed and it was from an ulcer. She nearly lost her life and had to have an operation. She came through that into the ICU, but the nurses were all coughing in the ward (she was in a side room) and she caught COVID from them.
She nearly died a few times due to that, but she eventually came out of the ICU into a ward on a feeding tube.
She was assessed and put onto a soft pureed diet. She had an OK swallow, but the assessor was very worried about her being conscious. She had the lingering affects of ICU delirium and also dehydration (another thing that happened)
A nurse came in with tablets, she went to tip them into her mouth when she wasn't conscious enough, we were visiting and said she wasn't awake enough to do that, she looked at us then did it anyway. She started choking and coughing and then carried on for hours afterwards. We called in the head nurse and they said it was nothing to do with the tablets.
We visited everyday for the full 5 hours. When we went the next day she was coughing again. We asked the nurses and they said she hadn't all day before we were there. We thought we were going mad TBH. It carried on this way the next few days. We brought up the cough to the Dr who said it was long COVID, she hadn't coughed for weeks since she tested negative in the ICU (4/5 weeks).
Anyway, they discharged her suddenly on September 27th a few days later and a week after the tablets. She was discharged to a rehab centre. The next day we went to visit in the morning and an ambulance was there taking her back into hospital.
She had aspirated pneumonia and was released in a terrible condition. When she was finally placed after resus we were called in to be told essentially it was all over. She had a lung that wasn't functional and her heart was failing.
After all that we refused to leave, we stayed day and night in turns as we no longer trusted the hospital. A few times they tried to move her to palliative drugs but my daughter said they had to actually try.
She did finally get out of hospital on December 6th, she's eating normally, breathing normally and walking with a frame (which is better than expected but worse than when she went in in July).
Just wondering if there's a case in the failed discharge? We have put in an extended complaint through PALS, which was it's own thing with the governor of the hospital meeting us and asking us to maybe take a few things off the complaint and then it being a whitewash.
Thanks for any help, it's been an awful time. My daughter who has been there everyday for her nan is suffering with PTSD and we're all still trying to make sense of it all.