Hi,
Need opinions on whether we are overreacting. Bit long, will aim for brevity but apologies if I miss anything.
We are selling a property. The property was tenanted with a friend who I lived with pre-DH and when they decided to move out we put the property up for sale.
Accepted a low offer on the basis of a quick completion. It has absolutely dragged on way past agreed timescales and it's all become very fraught with estate agents for all the usual reasons, won't bore you with it all.
Our only 'bargaining chip' to push the buyers to move faster was access to the property. We had allowed them in twice to measure up, but they had family visiting last week and asked to show them around. We said not until their solicitor responded to ours regarding searches. On Tuesday last week we got notice of a viewing - this agent has a process for access where you always get an automated text & email notice of a viewing - so we contacted the EA and asked what they were doing, they apologised and the viewing was cancelled.
Wednesday EA asked us again to allow the viewing and we reiterated 'no' as we still had no response to our solicitor.
When the property was vacated we installed security cameras. We did not notify the EA of this.
Wednesday evening the security cameras alerted DH and I that someone was in the property. We looked at the feed and it was the EA! And about ten other people. They entered the property and the EA clearly spots the camera, looks shocked and immediately runs over to the camera and unplugs it. I whizzed over to the property (arrived 30 minutes later) and it was empty, with security cameras switched off and facing the bloody wall. They left the property completely unsecured.
We immediately tried to call the agent but it was after hours. The agents called back the next day apologising and that the branch manager - who was now on leave - must have been "confused" about permission - clearly untrue as we never had the usual automated text/email.
The branch manager called me on his return and repeated over and over 'you must remember we spoke, you must remember we spoke and you gave permission' when we never had a conversation that day (confirmed in phone records). It was so creepy. He has since said DH gave him permission. Essentially, as if it isn't obvious, he's lying.
We have since complained to the Area Manager who has said that the branch manager said we gave permission and has cited a phone call to DH that morning, but they are ignoring our multiple calls that night, emails about the unexpected access the next day, and general reaction that surely shows we had no idea.
What should we do? Calm down? Ombudsman? It's all just really annoying how they are lying, but it is worse because of how poor they've been handling the sale and, frankly, I'm inclined to a but of a mission of vengeance so maybe I should just let it go?
Advise me, darling vipers!