Recently somebody wrote my son’s car off. Liability completely accepted by the other driver. I don’t understand why the insurance company wouldn’t get the excess from the other driver. I had an accident some years ago on holiday in France. The other driver accepted liability. At first my insurance kept my excess but eventually refunded when I threatened to go to the insurance ombudsman. I don’t know what to advise him as the online messages seem very confusing so hoping for some mumsnet wisdom