A friend of mine (69) learned on Tuesday that her cancer treatment hasn't worked and she may well have only six months left to live.
She married her partner later in life and they have no children. Her partner owns a very nice house but has limited savings or investments. He has a teacher's pension worth around £8k pa and the full state pension. My friend lives with him, lets out her former home in London for income and, via inheritance from her parents and other elderly relatives, has a substantial investment portfolio. I suspect from things said over the years we're easily talking £1 million+ invested in ISAs and a SIPP etc. Plus she has what most people would consider a good workplace pension after a fairly senior career in the civil service. Her husband is the named beneficiary of her workplace pension and the existing will, drawn up when they married 12 years ago, left everything to him in order to avoid IHT.
Now that it's clear that there is nothing more the medics can do, my friend wants to leave around 70% of her estate to be split between her niece and nephew, both in their late 20s and struggling to get on the property ladder. My friend has recently become concerned by the emergence of her husband's niece who has started taking an interest in them after many years of silence.
Friend has to wait till after Easter to take legal advice but has been googling the implications of IHT. Her first thought was to leave a letter to her husband stating her wishes clearly and leaving it to him to create a deed of variation and distribute the estate per her wishes. However his behaviour since she was diagnosed last year has revealed unexpected vulnerabilities and she is worried that he won't, for whatever reason, be able or willing to carry out her wishes. Her solicitor talked about creating a trust a few years ago. My friend's only experience of a family trust was fraught, with the fees of solicitors and financial advisers whittling away at its value, and she isn't enthusiastic about the idea.
She is googling and making herself anxious, realising that she should have dealt with this a long time ago. Instead, she lived in hope that the chemo would work and she wouldn't have to think about finances and inheritance. She has talked to me about the situation and I'll see her over the weekend. It would be nice to be in a position to have something positive/ constructive to offer. Can anyone with legal/ financial knowledge suggest a way forward? Thank you in advance.