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Strange solicitor's letter

86 replies

whymewhynow · 12/11/2022 13:52

I'm wondering if anyone can help me with this.

I had a dispute with our next door neighbour: our fence fell onto their garden, there was no damage, we had the fence repaired within about three weeks of this happening but they said that was not fast enough, that they should have been able to choose the contractor etc etc. We just told them that we were paying and so it was our choice who did the work, got on with it, fence is now up, looks nice.

We have now received a solicitor's letter saying that we must compensate them to the tune of £2000 for the stress that having the fence fall down caused them and give them another £400 towards their legal costs otherwise they will take us to court. I can't really see what their claim is for apart from some mild inconvenience but surely you can't get a lawyer to send a completely bogus letter like this one.

I've checked and the legal firm seems to be legitimate but the solicitor who has written on my neighbours' behalf has, on both the company's website and his own email sign-off, nothing to do with property law, his specialism is a different branch of law completely. Is it OTT to wonder if the solicitor is a relative/family friend who is writing this quite threatening letter as a favour.

I'm very tempted to write back: "See ya in court" but not sure that is entirely sensible.

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CornishTiger · 12/11/2022 17:42

I’d be so tempted to literally laugh at them next time I saw them. If they ask why laughing. Say that letter mate hilarious

IAmAlreadyRegrettingMyGreyColourScheme · 12/11/2022 17:43

Family member had one of these years ago demanding she change her surname following divorce. Absolute bullshit.
100% ignore.
They'll go away.

Wiluli · 12/11/2022 17:44

You can check if the solicitor is real on

www.sra.org.uk/consumers/register/

QuebecBagnet · 12/11/2022 17:45

Onnabugeisha · 12/11/2022 15:45

I’d respond with essentially the fence falling was an Act of God, therefore you have no liability whatsoever. And that any further letters will result in the solicitor being reported to the SRA for unethical business practices or incompetence by sending frivolous letters threatening legal action when they know, or should know that there are no grounds for legal action.

I’d do this but send the reply not just to that solicitor but also to any practice partners saying such stupid correspondence puts their entire practice in a poor light and does nothing for their reputation. If he is going rogue for a friend let his boss know!

MuraRocker · 12/11/2022 17:46

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NoDairyNoProblem · 12/11/2022 17:47

GoldenGorilla · 12/11/2022 16:18

There’s a last on mumsnet whose exH once got a solicitor to write to her demanding that she take down the curtains in her living room because he wanted to be able to look in and spy on her.

obviously he had fuck-all legal right to demand that.

lawyers will just write letters that essentially say “this is what my client wants”.

on the offchance that they do ever go to court, it looks better for you if you have been reasonable and engaged in the process.

so I would write back confirming receipt, say that you were under no legal obligation to replace the fence (assuming your deeds don't specifically say you need a fence), but that in any event you replaced it within a reasonable timeframe and therefore do not believe that you have any liability.

@Pumpkinpatchlookinggood its you!

drpet49 · 12/11/2022 17:50

Sandunesandseashells · 12/11/2022 14:52

Don't waste your time replying, wait to see if they take it further. Grey rock.
Don’t give them any insight into your thinking, intentions or feelings on the matter. No explanation, let them stew - very important.
Enjoy the fact that every letter received probably costs them approx £250 and let them keep sending.
Don’t take any notice of threats or fortune telling in the letters; no-one can ever guess what a judge may decide.
If your neighbours try to speak to you about it (as they will eventually, to save money) tell them to put it in writing via their solicitor.

Great advice and this is what I would do. If it ever ends up in court the judge will throw it out anyway.

bonzaitree · 12/11/2022 17:50

RewildingAmbridge · 12/11/2022 15:57

I would reply to the solicitor, and to every other letter the solicitor sends, with questions or with deliberate misunderstanding, oh thank you for the generous offer, their contact did put me under some stress would they like to pay by cash or cheque? Which fence does this refer to? What's the expected timeline for fence replacement in law? etc etc because they will be charged for each letter.

I would do this. Rack up the costs.

Stupid stupid neighbours

NeedAHoliday2021 · 12/11/2022 17:59

My parents neighbour took them to court over a fence panel that hit their car in high winds. They felt my parents should pay for car repairs. Because it was classed as an”act of god” the neighbours had to go through car insurance and my parents kindly offered to pay the excess (because they were comfortable and neighbours were young with small children) but they wanted them to cover the full amount. Anyway, it went to court and the list of car repairs included dents on all sides of the car plus a new stereo! Judge did not take neighbour’s side.
I would ignore!

Thereisnolight · 12/11/2022 18:04

It’s easy to say ignore, but not so easy in practice. Receiving a solicitor’s letter like that is highly unpleasant and the more innocent and less accustomed to being sued you are the more you will feel upset by it.

Did your falling fence damage any of their property? (Or were there any other consequences to your fence falling?) How did it fall? Was it reasonably well secured or had there been previous interactions between you regarding your fence or any other potential hazards on your property?

Did you take any photos of the fence, before and after the fall? Did they specifically mention why they think they are owed money, eg due to damage to something specific? Does your new fence comply with planning regulations? Did the workmen damage anything or cause unreasonable interference?

Can you provide reasonable back-up to all or some of the above? It’s true the onus of proof is on them, not you, but it’s good to have proof of your side anyway in case they falsify or exaggerate.

Do you have insurance covering damage to neighbouring property? If so, your neighbours might take this as a green light to try it on. Inform your insurance company that you believe a false claim may be imminent and you oppose it.

If you have done nothing wrong, remain calm and firm and don’t let any legal people think you’re an easy target. This behaviour is so unpleasant and they’ve almost certainly got form for being litigious. Keep your cool. Good luck!

MuraRocker · 12/11/2022 18:10

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Thereisnolight · 12/11/2022 18:04

It’s easy to say ignore, but not so easy in practice. Receiving a solicitor’s letter like that is highly unpleasant and the more innocent and less accustomed to being sued you are the more you will feel upset by it.

Did your falling fence damage any of their property? (Or were there any other consequences to your fence falling?) How did it fall? Was it reasonably well secured or had there been previous interactions between you regarding your fence or any other potential hazards on your property?

Did you take any photos of the fence, before and after the fall? Did they specifically mention why they think they are owed money, eg due to damage to something specific? Does your new fence comply with planning regulations? Did the workmen damage anything or cause unreasonable interference?

Can you provide reasonable back-up to all or some of the above? It’s true the onus of proof is on them, not you, but it’s good to have proof of your side anyway in case they falsify or exaggerate.

Do you have insurance covering damage to neighbouring property? If so, your neighbours might take this as a green light to try it on. Inform your insurance company that you believe a false claim may be imminent and you oppose it.

If you have done nothing wrong, remain calm and firm and don’t let any legal people think you’re an easy target. This behaviour is so unpleasant and they’ve almost certainly got form for being litigious. Keep your cool. Good luck!

If it was damage surely it would have been mentioned in the letter, including damage incurred. Rathe then stress and legal fees.

Blowthemandown · 12/11/2022 18:16

@whymewhynow have you had trouble with these neighbours before? I’d certainly write down the timeline of events and keep before and after photos (bit late for ‘before’ if you didn’t happen to have any, of course) if possible. They sound barmy!

SmudgeButt · 12/11/2022 18:24

Stress for having a fence fall over? What happened next? Did your pack of 30 Rott/doberman cross dogs set up camp on their lawn and glare at them every time they looked out the windows?

I suspect any judge would laugh this out of court.

It's your fence. No damage. You didn't even need to replace it so they can go stuff themselves.

OldWivesTale · 12/11/2022 18:24

As PP said, solicitors will write whatever the client asks them to write, within reason. I'd just ignore it completely, they're never going to pursue this.

AlbertaAnnie · 12/11/2022 18:25

Jesus - you neighbours sound bonkers! 😂😂😂
please don’t get too worried about this - you are in the right and they would be laughed out of court by a judge ( although very very unlikely it would ever get that far)
don’t engage with them at all - they are clearly nuts!

PilatesPeach · 12/11/2022 18:28

What a load of rubbish - how can they quantify the 2k? Have they had to have therapy? Or do they just think 2k is a nice sum and should see them right for a holiday or getting their house decorated. Damages for stress are only recoverable in limited circumstances and no way have they suffered stress from this - there was no threat of imminent danger to them - they just had a fence lying down for a few weeks - wtf!

whymewhynow · 12/11/2022 18:49

Oh - I had no idea that my question would get so many responses Shock. Thank you everyone.

To be clear, I know that they're trying it on and, as stressful as it was to receive this letter full of legalese (it's really long), I don't think for an instant it will go to court. We've had an ok relationship with these neighbours - they're a bit prickly but we just try to be friendly but distant. Part of the damages is loss of privacy while the fence was down. There was no damage done, they have very ugly pavers, no plants or furniture in their garden.

My question was really more about being charged money for a letter which I strongly suspect is written by someone that they know as he's in a division that does not have anything to do with property law and, I remembered later, based in the same town that one of them comes from. Is it ethical to ask for money for an expense that you (probably) haven't incurred?

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shabs05 · 12/11/2022 18:51

So you replaced and paid for a fence that belonged to you and they want paying?
I'd write back to the solicitor just for the sake of it, everytime he writes on their behalf he's billing them isn't he?
Just write back asking for clarification then write back to their reply asking what there alternative would have been. Keep it going for as long as you can.
Meanwhile get some legal advice of your own or ask in the legal part of MN just to make sure they can't really take you to court or anything.
They'll have a nice hefty bill by the end of it all
MWA HA HA HA HA!

Igglepiggleslittletoe · 12/11/2022 18:53

I would countersue for half the fence. Fuckers.

Tulipomania · 12/11/2022 18:56

If he is a friend or relative of the neighbours he's probably not charging them for the letters.
I'd ignore.

HappyHamsters · 12/11/2022 19:01

There is no law that states you must have a fence, they could have put up their own fence or screen if they wanted privacy.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 12/11/2022 19:02

What CF nutters!

They remind me of the thread from some time back where the OP's mad neighbours wanted the large piece of land to the side of the property that she'd been bequeathed (iirc) by the lady who had lived there. I think they'd been hoping to con her into selling it to them dirt cheap but she had died before they'd managed to get their claws in. They sent OP several laughable letters written in cod Latin and had clearly not even bothered to engage a (dodgy) real solicitor!

They must be extremely stupid if they think they can pluck a large amount of money that they would like (wouldn't we all) out of the air and think that OP will just pay it. Maybe it does make sense in their minds (in which case, a psychiatric report may be in order), but they just sound like chancing CF narcs to me.

QuebecBagnet · 12/11/2022 19:24

Is it ethical to ask for money for an expense that you (probably) haven't incurred?

no, not at all. They’re cheeky fuckers who are trying it on.

maplesaucewithbacon · 12/11/2022 19:25

I might just write back acknowledging receipt of the letter but nothing else. Or ignore it.

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