"MQ - are you a lawyer? "
i've studied it but am not yet qualified.
"My DH is a bog standard white middle class OK degree 30 year old bloke. He gets really upset about "positive discrimination". "
haha join the club. but just like your husband (well i've got a few years on him) i will never really experience it in a true oppressive sense that will hold me back. i mean i accept that where i'm working being middle class helped me get the job (white i doubt had anything to do with it, but at the moment in dublin if you are iddle clas you are more likely to be white but thats another days work)
so my only real experience is the way is the fact that we are the last acceptable target of ridicule at any sort f mainstream level (black comedians can make white people jokes,women can make male jokes,comments like what do you expect he's a man are accepted.) which really is a very very very small thing to have to put up with when alligned with very real racism and sexism others experience.
"Having experienced constructive dismissal and sex discrimination myself, in a very male orientated company, I do believe that the laws and things are necessary because unfortunately people often do not behave in an unpredudiced fashion when left to themselves.
Many 20 year olds may not be sexist/racist etc but in my experience the people running things - usually older men - often are - and someone needs to keep them in check. "
which i agree with and was kind of my point. i look forward to when they are not necessary and while they might annoy me because it feels like they assume sexism or racism on every white males, that annoyance is the far lesser of two evils as oppossed to not having these laws at all