Sorry. Litchick, slipping from one subject (IVF and embryos) to another (foetuses) here
and definitely uneasy with the assumption that we should all want abortion if carrying a disabled child
I was made to feel rather irresponsible when I refused an amnio, until I pointed out that given my age, there was a greater risk of miscarriage due to amnio than of my actually having a child with downs
midwife totally uncomprehending when I said the amnio wouldn't "cure" downs anyway, so where was the point of my risking it; she had assumed that I would have an abortion: I imagine if I had been less forceful I would have felt quite pressurised at this point
I am slightly confused by the changing position of rosieglow on this thread
at first I seemed to understand that she was advocating termination for any foetus that could be shown to carry a disabled gene- which I was uncomfortable with
then she seemed to be talking about IVF and the discarding of embryos- which I have less of a moral problem with but more of a practical- IVF is very expensive and not for everyone; besides, she seemed to hint that this would have been a good solution for me and my dd (not!)
then she was talking about genetic curing of a disease while keeping the baby- nice but a long way off, we can't even cure cancer