Oh for heaven's sake, where did I say I let them suffer?
I just think that there are other ways to help children through the normal aches and pains and bugs of childhood without reaching for medicine as a first resort.
Yes, a really bad ear ache needs calpol or similar. However, for a mild one, warmth and distraction can work too. A very high fever or a fever in a child prone to febrile convulsions needs bringing down - a not so high temperature is part of the body's way of fighting infection and doesn't need bringing down. Cool flannels and cool drinks and sponging can make a child much more comfortable. A serious injury (like my ds's broken wrist) needs pain relief and fast - a lot of every day bumps and bruises can be treated with ice. My dd's migraine headaches need Ibuprofen, an end of the week over tired headache needs cuddles, a neck massage and bed.