Personally, I know A LOT of people who smoked when pregnant. Most of them have had healthy pregnancies, sailed through everything, had healthy babies, who have gone past the risk age of cot death (so the books say). Are they lucky?
I know people who ate nearly everything on that list, sushi, peanuts, unpasturised ice-cream etc and go on the have problem free pregnancies and healthy children. Are they lucky?
I lost weight before TTC so I would be healthier, I quit my few-and-far-between alcoholic drinks. I got my husband to stop smoking. We never went anywhere smoky. I quit all the foods I knew I wasn't allowed to eat. I didn't do anything dangerous, I was a golden pregnant girl. I had a SHIT pregnancy, I was in and out of hospital. I ended up with a section. At one point I was panicking about a miscarriage because I came in contact with slapped cheek syndrome which has a risk of miscarraige. If I had lost my baby, would it have been my fault for not being careful enough? Was I just unlucky?
I know that is slightly off topic of smoking, but wanted to share!
I think the idea of banning pregnant women from smoking it is a hard idea - it would be impossible to enforce, and I do not like the ideas of certain sections of the population being penalised for one thing, while the other sections aren't. Takes us back to the dark ages really.
However, I do wish that pregnant women would give up, and I am not making sweeping statements with this, but I know women who smoke and just do not give a shit about the consequences, and that is what sits uneasy with me.