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I literally wrote
Severe dementia is a disease and therefore would require professional care. I don’t think I can be any clearer than that and if you’re choosing to ignore it in order to find offence then so be it!
Posters like Pumpertrumper can afford to have the breezy attitude of not my family, not my problem
My whole post was about how families SHOULD take responsibility for their elderly loved ones! I can’t even fathom how you’ve drawn this conclusion but well done.
JUST being elderly and unable to live alone with medical conditions and low level immobility is somewhat expected in old age and CAN be managed at home.
No, what happens is families, sometimes with health needs of their own or young children gradually start to bare the responsibility for years, even decades until they reach the point of collapse. Instead of appreciating these families we weigh them down with obligations and guilt and delight in the fact that they generationally loose secure housing due to lost inheritance
So essentially, we’ll look after them until it’s too hard or inconvenient, then the gov can look after them. But we still want to inherit their house and money please...because we don’t have our own?
(In situations without mitigating circumstances such a dementia or cancer this is essentially what you’re saying^)
My family are currently juggling care of 2 elderly relatives, a cancer patient and a disabled/chronically ill youth... so I can empathise, I’m just not entitled and grabby.