Why is it that people struggle to understand or show empathy or compassion just because it wasn't something they suffered or whitnessed first hand?
What if you scale it right down and make it personal, would your compassion stretch further?
For example, say you live in a small town that is failing economically so the community are struggling. If some guy comes into your home, snatches your children from their beds and heads off into the night with them to exploit them for financial gain. You never see your children again and will never know the truth of what awful things they experienced.
However, snatchers back in town now with his fat load of cash, injects it into businesses, maybe even the school.
The community begins to slowly thrive, and out of gratitude, the people of the community decide they will erect a statue of your child snatcher right in the centre of your town, you see it almost daily all big and shiny.
How would that statue make you feel?
Sounds over simplistic of course but I don't know how else to help you understand that you are wrong in your beliefs - in accordance to mine.