I'm a little bit astounded at the naivety of some posters. Yes, there are plenty of children with severe mental health issues. These can stem from, among other things, growing up in poverty, fleeing war or domestic violence, parental drug abuse or mental health issues. Fact: thanks to government policy (including this week rescinding the child poverty act) a lot of these children will be struggling with money. Some won't: some will be from wealthier families and will be better served by interventions like art therapy etc, all of which kids company offers. However many children's most pressing issue is hunger, clothes that don't fit, having nothing to do, not getting a birthday present. Not having a facebook aged 16 because you don't have the internet or a computer. Having to do your homework at school for the same reason. These are very small short term problems that are, nonetheless, urgent, allowing no space for healing. I pity a therapist working with a hungry, tired, ill child, and can only imagine how difficult that child's life must be.
It's very easy to scoff and be smug about small-scale interventions from a warm, clean, dry, quiet home, with a full stomach and the weekend to look forward to. The reality is, if I'd put my hand in my pocket to give a tenner to everybody I have met this week who would have had a problem solved with that money, I'd have nothing left. I very much doubt that children were being given envelopes containing money willy-nilly, and it's not a huge deductive leap to wonder if, perhaps, mum's benefits had been stopped (Friday afternoon common payment time) and there was nothing in the cupboards for the weekend? Or if say a 17 year old had to move out due to the euphemistic "family problems" - hard to get benefits as a 17 year old, £20 might make a difference between their going to college that week or something far worse going on. FYI if a 17 year old leaves college for any reason, their parent gets NOTHING FOR THEM, no child benefit etc once they're out of education. Lots of troubled young people who don't quite have the life skills yet to manage college. Very easy for a volunteer to then look at that and tut because it doesn't fit their mental image of how things are done. Have seen it before. Several charities actually give discretionary pensions to older people on low incomes - often already getting £200+ a week from benefits AFTER you take housing costs into account. Is that all right because they're old, and therefore more deserving? Or is it just that their donors are ok with it?
Re the email comment on donors mental health, quoted in the spectator. Journo behind that article fails to mention that this was a snippet of a section concerning the on going debate between donor, kc and her family about whether she had mental capacity to donate or not. Not an offhand remark in that context.
Will say they are not just handing out money left right and centre. Just impossible. Their accounts will have been through 3 lots of auditing (internal, accountancy, charity commission), then submitted for annual review to funders and government would have serious egg on their face if it were found to be misused after they've spent X years approving it. Very easy for government or press to talk about envelopes full of money and Xboxes as if that were a prevailing culture, for some media attention. Bit like when the Philpott case resulted in that revolting benefit Britain headline. Would imagine the facts include separate charitable / social services / young carers grant applications for reconditioned Xbox for a family who desperately need something at Christmas as relief from grinding poverty, illness or disability and haven't got 2 pence to rub together. Nobody is going to go out and spend £200 of therapeutic money on that sort of thing when there are children turning up needing food, clothes, shoes.
Finally finally. Very common for local on the ground charities to give small amounts of money. Decisions made by staff well versed in clients situation. All in dire need. Judge away, this is why we have charities in the first place.