My ds was born prem and he needed treatment in scbu, when I was in labour there were discussions about moving me to another hospital because there was no room for him in scbu, they even tually decided that they woould move things around and squeeze me in!!
After the birth ds was taken from me straight to scbu and I was then shown to my bed, we were miles apart, they were actually putting me on the ward with all the other mums who had there babies with them. I was devistated and cried myself to sleep, I'm a first time mum and never thought that I would spend the first night away from my baby. This went on for 3 nights and then they found room for me in the bay for scbu babies mummies right next door to them.
Now 3 of the babies taking up the room in scbu were very very prem babies or should I call them bed blockers, I know for a fact that no matter how angry and upset I was about the whole situation I would never ever have been telling any of those parents that there babies were worth less than mine.
This scbu by the way is now being threatened with closure because of funding.
The only thing I would have changed about it all would be where they made me sleep, I think it was really insensitive to expect me to bed down with glowing new mums and there babies, when mine was all alone in scbu.